Ask Me Anything (New and Revised!)

[The Slutty Princess]

Originally Posted by thewilds

Thanks for your responses to all my questions. Here's another:
You work in a library. There is a large following of videos with sexual acts taking place in libraries all over the internet, so-
What is your opinion of this "fad"?
If you discovered someone engaged in a similar act in your library, what do you think you would do and how do you think you would react?

I actually find this “fad” kind of alluring, in hindsight, it is sexy and kinky. But then again, I think you should find another place to masturbate at. I guess I’m indifferent on the whole concept of the fad. If you are going to do it, it better be at a campus or university library. If it isn’t at a campus library, there will be children around, and that is where I get indifferent on the case. Also, if you are going to do it, clean up after yourself please and keep others out of your video. I have specifically caught somebody masturbating or engaging in any sexual acts in the library. Every now and then, there is always a couple that will get a little too aggressive in their touching and kissing. I was actually briefed on these similar actions when I first started my job. If I were to see a person engaged in a sexual act or even watching porn, I am required to call the campus police. And honestly, if I were to catch somebody in such an act, I may or may not give them a warning. If they stop after I catch them in the act, I may be more lenient on them but if they continue, I’d have to call the campus police. The whole situation leaves me in a tough place. I’d hate to see somebody booted off campus for such an act, but then again, I guess it was their choice. My suggestion, masturbate in a public bathroom or somewhere more secluded.

Originally Posted by thewilds

Have you ever walked in on someone having sex? If yes, what happened?
Have you ever been caught in a sexual act by anyone? If so, what transpired?

I have never been caught in a sexual act by somebody, but I have walked in on my fair share of sexual acts. At a party, I walked into a bathroom after knocking on the door twice (there was no answer) and a woman was giving another man a blowjob. It was mildly awkward and I apologized and hurriedly shut the door. Another time was in a public bathroom at a bar. I went into the bathroom to wash my hands and it was obvious that a couple was getting it on one of the stalls. Again, it was awkward but then again, they couldn’t see me and I couldn't see them, and I quickly washed my hands and returned to the table with Sammie.

[getdaring]

do you like wedgies and how do you feel about them?
have you done many wedgie dares and do you like them for dares?

[The Slutty Princess]

Originally Posted by Bobcat

1. what is the wildest dare you ever did
2. have you ever been nude in group
3. would you ever do a dice roll to see what you wear to a party if nude was in there
4. do you like micro mini skirts
5, what side do like the most dom or slave
6, would you dress a guy up as women and take them to a bar
7. would you put a guy on cam xdressed
8. what is the worse thing you gave a guy to do
9. what is a secret you like to keep away from everyone

1. What is the wildest dare you ever did?
I mentioned it in my last reply, but undressing and swapping clothes with my girlfriend at a movie theater while the movie was playing was by far the most fun and wildest dare I have ever done. I’m not sure if it could be classified as a dare, another user had dared us to switch panties during the movie but things escalated.

2. Have you ever been nude in group?
The only time I have been naked in front of a group of people was back in high school on numerous occasions. During parties and sleepovers, we’d always play some type of game around the campfire or after watching a movie. The games were usually truth or dare, post office, never have I ever, or spin the bottle and we’d put our own variation on each game. Generally, a penalty for missing a move or refusing to complete a dare or answer a question would be grounds for removal of one article of clothing. Once one person was naked, or the entire group was naked, the game would fizzle out rather quickly but I had some great memories with my friends and these party games!

3. Would you ever do a dice roll to see what you wear to a party if nude was in there?
Probably not. I don’t think I would have the courage to show up to a party nude. Plus, choosing what to wear to a party is one of the best parts about going to a party in the first place!

4. Do you like micro mini skirts?
Not in particular. I prefer my skirts to have a little length to them, otherwise I feel too uncomfortable Don’t get em wrong, I think mini skirts can be sexy as long as they are worn in the right setting. I think I’d be comfortable wearing a mini skirt to an adult party than in a public setting where I may encounter children or teenagers of younger age, or for that manner, anyone that may find it disgusting. I believe there is a right time and place for wearing a mini skirt.

5. What side do like the most dom or slave?
Erm...Do I have to choose one? I’m not much a “dominant”, controlling person nor am I even considerable to a status of a slave. In the bedroom, I like to play both roles. I like to give up all control and place it all in the hands of my lover, but then there are nights where I like to be in the driver’s seat, so to speak. I really enjoy having her love and trust in my hand. I love helplessly teasing her. So, I guess if I had to choose one, I’d pick the dominant role.

6. Would you dress a guy up as women and take them to a bar?
Probably not, doesn’t fit my interests. I don’t want to humiliate anyone.

7. Would you put a guy on cam xdressed?
Again, I don’t like humiliating anyone, so I think I’d pass.

8. What is the worse thing you gave a guy to do?
I’m not very active in these threads on getDare. Every now and then, users will send me some choices of punishments given by their Dominant, and I will always give my input but I think the worst I’ve ever dealt out to another user was completing multiple edges and running an orgasm.

9. What is a secret you like to keep away from everyone?
If you follow my blog, I have already shared my darkest secret with the world. I shared it with all of you, yet it is still a secret that I have kept from my girlfriend, parents and family, and all my friends. So the secret...I tried to take my life by overdosing when I was 15, but my sister saved me. But, I have progressed so far since that incident. I have never been happier and more confident with myself than now.

[bdsm2014]

If you haven't answerd this:

What are the three things in the last one year that you would want to go back and change, and what will be the change ?

[The Slutty Princess]

Originally Posted by DaringDeanna

Imagine if you lost Sammie for whatever reason (excluding death), what do you think would happen to you and your life? Would you even be the same person again?

In one sentence, what is "love" to you?

Thanks

This is certainly a tough question because losing Sam is a hard reality to imagine. I’ve never been so scared of losing something in my entire life, but then again nothing in my life has ever meant as much to me as Sam does. She has given me the love that I feel like I have deserved all along but I haven’t got, and the thought of losing that is hard to swallow. She has my heart, so if she ever leaves, my heart will travel with her. If I were to say that I’d try to find strength and make my life better and try to be the same person I am, I’d be lying. I can’t envision a future without her by my side. I don’t think I’d be able to love again….actually, I know I wouldn’t be able to love anyone like the way I love her. My heart would never be as full as it is now. No smile could warm my heart like hers. No arms could make me feel as safe as hers. If I were to lose her, the only healthy outcome I can think of would be to surround myself with friends and family but my life wouldn’t be the same without her, because she is my best friend and she is family. I meant it when I told her I would love her forever. I love her and I will always love her. Even in the event that she’d leave me and break her promise of forever with me, I’ll hate that the promise was broken, but I’d never hate her.


If I had to describe love in one sentence:
Love is the mutuality of feelings, when someone else’s happiness is your happiness, and their sadness is your sadness, that is love.

[The Slutty Princess]

Originally Posted by getdaring

do you like wedgies and how do you feel about them?
have you done many wedgie dares and do you like them for dares?

My interests have never really been peaked by wedgies. I know that it seems as though the wedgie fetish is a dominant and popular fetish on this website but I've never really been intrigued by the idea. I guess I don't mind wedgies, I just find them extremely uncomfortable and annoying, I don't experience arousal and pleasure like others may receive from the fetish.

[thewilds]

And a couple new questions.

When the "lights are on" which of - you or Sammie - have the brightest headlights (metaphorically speaking)?

If you were mapping it out from most sensitive to least, describe your erogenous zones.

Do you see yourself ever bringing Sammie into this secret world of yours at GD?

[The Slutty Princess]

Originally Posted by bdsm2014

If you haven't answered this:

What are the three things in the last one year that you would want to go back and change, and what will be the change?

Thanks for the creative and challenging question, I actually had to spend some time thinking about my answer! I try not to dwell on events of the past and I try not to hold onto regrets, but like everyone, I still have things I regret in my life. In the past year, I regret….

1.Not spending more time with my Grandfather before he passed. My grandparents on my father’s side of the family are the only grandparents that live within driving distance, my grandparents on my mother’s side live in her home country of Argentina, and I’ve only met them twice in person but I try to regularly skype with them. My grandfather on my father’s side of the family had suffered from Parkinson’s and Alzheimer's disease before he had passed this past September. He wasn’t mentally stable and he had a hard time getting around in his last few months but I wish I could have spent more time with him, listened to more of the stories that he could recall, play dominoes and card games with him, and take our monthly trip into town and get ice cream. I miss him. He filled my childhood with joy and memories and he always gave me the best advice a teenager could ask for, and he gave the best hugs! I just wish I could have been there a little bit more in his last few months, to spend a few more laughs together, and to take some of the stress off my grandmother’s shoulders.

2. I wish I had had the strength to come out to my parents. I had struggled to accept my sexual orientation for the longest of time and when I finally was ready to accept who I actually was, I couldn’t tell my parents. It was September. I had been dating Sammie for a few weeks and we had grown very close, close enough that we felt it was time to tell our parents. That night at the dinner table, my intent was to tell my parents who I really was….I had rehearsed the speech over and over again in my head but when I was finally ready to speak, I couldn’t muster a single word. Instead, I cried my eyes out, fearful of what my parents would think of me. Fortunately, my sister had come to my rescue for the umpteenth time. I had told her a few days beforehand that I was planning on coming out to my parents, and since day one, my sister had my back and supported me and that night, when I was at a lost for words and my words were replaced with tearful sobs, she spoke for me. She told my parents all about my struggles and fears, and about Sammie and I. Don’t get me wrong, I am grateful that she helped me through it and I had told her beforehand that if I couldn’t go through with it, to speak for me, and she did exactly that. I just wish I would have had the courage to do it myself.

3. I wish I had put my personal physical and mental health first and worry about others second. Sometimes, I worry about pleasing others too much. I worry about disappointing them, hurting their feelings, and I put their feelings before my own. In the past year (and years previously), I had done plenty of things that I didn’t want to do, that actually hurt me both physically and mentally but I did it with the intent that I’d make someone else happy. I won’t go into too much detail, I just wish that I would have put the love towards myself and my close friends and family, rather than gifting my love and gratitude to complete strangers. And I don’t mean to sound self-centered and arrogant because actually do care about the people in this world, in some instances, I just think I could have used my time a little more wisely, something that would bring joy to myself while also bringing joy to others.

[The Slutty Princess]

Originally Posted by thewilds

And a couple new questions.

When the "lights are on" which of - you or Sammie - have the brightest headlights (metaphorically speaking)?

Not familiar with your lingo, so correct me if I’m wrong, but I interpret it as..between the two of us, which one is wilder / more active in bed? If that is the case, Sam’s headlights are much brighter than mine. I am generally the more passive one, Sam is the partner that usually takes control and initiates the activity so to speak. She is much more active, climbing all over me, always wiggling, always squirming, and always yelling the loudest. By far, she is the kinkier and more adventurous one, she is always determined to explore every inch of my body. Don’t get me wrong, I am quite adventurous as well and I greatly enjoy exploring every inch of her body but I am more of the partner who likes to lay back and take it all in. I like slow, provocative maneuvers, while Sammie likes fast and quick, but still teasing maneuvers and I think the mixture of passionate and fiery sex makes the sex...so amazing!

Originally Posted by thewilds

If you were mapping it out from most sensitive to least, describe your erogenous zones.

Oooh! A very fun and creative question to answer! I’ll list my erogenous zones from which zones drive me the wildest to the least wildest!

1. My Mind: Sam has a way to crawl inside my mind and control my thoughts and feelings during sex. She has the power to stimulate my mind with just her words and make me wet nearly anywhere, whether it is at the dinner table or reading her text messages in class. Over the years, I have learned that my mind needs to be stimulated for the sex to be over-the-top-amazing! And once my mind is stimulated, my entire body becomes one giant erogenous zone! Once she gets inside my head, she sends my mind spinning, and my body craving her every touch even more.

2. My Clitoris: Not really a surprise here, I think the clitoris is on the top of most lists! I think I once read that the clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings, so no surprise that it is one of my most sensitive erogenous zones! Whether it is nibbling, sucking, vibrations, rubbing, pinching, just about anything that touches my clit sends me squirming! My favorites include very light nibbling, soft vibrations, and light twirls with the tongue...they all drive me wild!

3. My Nipples: My nipples and my clitoris practically go hand-in-hand, it was hard to choose which one was more sensitive! I seem to have hypersensitive nipples compared to most girls. Even the lightest touch will send me into a squirming mess...don’t even get me started with the wind cutting through my shirt!

4. My Lips: Who doesn’t get sexually stimulated from kissing? I think I kiss Sam more than a hundred times while we wrestle in the sheets!

5. My Earlobes or Behind My Ears: Nibbling on my earlobes is my drug and my addiction. From licking to sucking, to light nibbles, I melt!

6. The Nape of My Neck: Kissing, nibbles, sucking...mhmm they all make my knees buckle and the send me craving for more!

7. Nook of My Neck to My Shoulders: The front of my neck and the area from my neck to my shoulder is highly sensitive! Light touches, kisses, and nibbles can do wonders to me!

8. My G-Spot: Not a huge fan of insertions but nonetheless, the G-Spot is still certainly an amazing stimulation! I’d just prefer oral sex over anything to do with insertions.

9. My Inner Thighs: Light touches, kisses, licking, or even breathing on my thighs will drive me crazy!

10. My Navel: Kissing and licking my belly button is also a favorite trigger of mine and will melt me into a puddle!

11. My Pelvis Line: Light touches, licking, and kisses on my pelvis drive me crazy and send me into a frenzy of squirms and moans, begging for more!

12. My Torso/Hips: Like my pelvis line, any light touching, kisses, or licking on my hips make me want to crave more.

13. My Nose: Eskimo kisses and light nibbles are the best and drive me wild!

14. My Lower Back: From soft massages to kisses and licking, my lower back can certainly trigger an orgasm!

15. My Belly: Similar to my lower back, massaging, light touching, kissing, sucking on my skin of my belly, and licking near my belly also feels amazing and can send me into a downward spiral towards orgasm!

16. My Toes: My toes are sensitive to touch but not too much. I enjoy light pinching, kisses, and sucking towards my toes but it isn’t the most sexual stimulating maneuver. The soles of my feet don’t provide much pleasure as well, it actually just tickles and makes me squirm...it still feels awesome, though!

17. My Butt: Not sure if this even counts as an erogenous zone, nonetheless massages still feel amazing. Still, any type of touching or spanking doesn’t get me very aroused. Same goes with anal play….it feels good, but it is not that great.

18. My Thighs: Rubbing, licking, massaging, or kisses on my thighs feel great, they are not that sexually stimulating but they still give off pleasure!

19. My Wrists: I love when Sam grabs my hands and softly rubs her thumb in circles on my wrists! Again, it is not necessarily sexually stimulating, but it feels great and can drive me wild at times!

20. My Hair/Scalp: Not really sure if you can count it as an erogenous zone, but I guess I can be the judge of that! I really enjoy when Sam runs her hands through my hair or massages my scalp during sex, it feels amazing and only increases my lust towards her.

Originally Posted by thewilds

Do you see yourself ever bringing Sammie into this secret world of yours at GD?

I actually have thought about introducing Sam to the getDare world but I’m not sure how I feel about it. I guess there are some things on here that I may have to edit/hid if she were to join. I have given it some thought and I think it would be a good idea to maybe write a collaborative blog or maybe have her answer some of these questions with me, or even get creative ideas for the bedroom for the both of us. Then again, there are things I don’t particularly like about this website. So I guess what I’m saying is that I’m unsure if Sam will ever get a GD account. I can possibly see a collaborative account where we both answer questions, engage in conversations, and blog.

[thewilds]

Thank you for an awesome effort and reporting. Did I ever say you are the best?

Though you ran with an awesome answer to my headlight metaphor, I really meant something more basic. Headlights I was referring to breast and brightness to the nipples during arousal. My bad, but i loved the first answer all the same.

So, rephrased as I should have from the beginning - whose nipples become hardest during arousal?

An added question, can either of you orgasm just through nipple play?

Can either of you orgasm solo AND without the use of your hands? (only by using your body muscles, to be specific)?

In response to your reply about Sammie and GD, have you done a little online play with her such as watch porn, read stories etc? Perhaps that might be a way to ease her into it (should you ever bring her here)?

[The Slutty Princess]

Originally Posted by thewilds

So, rephrased as I should have from the beginning - whose nipples become hardest during arousal?

Haha, never heard them referred to as headlights but it makes sense now! My nipples are usually harder during arousal, Sam’s like to stay puffy and soft when erect, mine turn into pointy diamonds!

Originally Posted by thewilds

An added question, can either of you orgasm just through nipple play?

I’ve reached climax just twice from nipple play, Sam, on the other hand, I have not been able to get her to climax from strictly nipple play. It takes some practice and usually some more foreplay, but if I really get into it and become lost in my own world of lust, I am capable of orgasming through nipple play...with a partner. I have tried to against through solo nipple play and I haven’t been able to do so. I need to feel another warm body against mine, I need to feel their hands running down my body in order to reach a climax through nipple stimulation.

Originally Posted by thewilds

Can either of you orgasm solo AND without the use of your hands? (only by using your body muscles, to be specific)?

A climax without the use of hands? Challenging, but we’ve done it before. I mean, oral stimulation is the obvious counter to hands and we both have made each other climax without purely our mouths. Scissoring is also another option in which we have reached climax without using our hands. That being said, in both instances, my hands are always running freely from my body to hers, so I’m not sure if both count. During sex, my hands need to move, whether it be running through her hair or down her ribs, they just move wherever they want to move. My hands crave human contact!

Originally Posted by thewilds

In response to your reply about Sammie and GD, have you done a little online play with her such as watch porn, read stories etc? Perhaps that might be a way to ease her into it (should you ever bring her here)?

As strange as it sounds, it is very common for us to watch porn together. I’m not a huge fan of porn, but if I do happen to watch a video, it is usually amateur videos or lesbian videos, or amateur lesbian videos! The other videos don’t really appeal to me. And in the instance that I do watch porn, it is always with Sam. I’m not the one to venture to porn websites, but sometimes we like to cuddle in bed and watch a few videos together to get ideas for techniques, maneuvers, positions, etc. Or we’ll use porn as a form of foreplay, but rarely does that happen. Sam likes to read sex blogs and will often show me a blog or an article that she read that interested her but we usually don’t read erotic stories or sex blogs together. In one instance, we tried roleplaying using a skit from the internet but it didn’t work out too well, it only ended with some laughs.