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Originally Posted by pluky
Q : if your Sub didn't really feel like doing a task, would you prefer them to do it anyway or to wait for a moment they are into it ?
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Wait for a moment they are into it. Kinks and relations like a Dom/Sub are built on trust and enjoyment. If I'm not liking the idea of a task then to me if I'm forced to do it it becomes somewhat abuse. Like if I tell a Dom, "I don't like the idea of ass to mouth" and he says, "Do it anyway" then not only do I feel like boundaries are being crossed, but I feel somewhat taken advantage of
As for task that I don't mind doing, sometimes its also just not feeling like it in that moment. Maybe my Dom will say, "Fuck your ass with a dildo for 5 minutes" I dont mind anal, but sometimes I just dont feel like having anything in my ass, but if my Dom is patient and waits until I'm all for it then its almost always better for the both of us.