Slaves do have rights, they have the right to stop a session if it is pushing one's boundaries and they have the right to dismiss themselves if their Master/Mistress is in fact abusing their power. Yet, just as there can be bad Masters/Mistresses there can also be bad slaves, sometimes a Master isn't trying to break your limit, they are just trying to help you overcome it. I think that there are many slaves you don't speak up when they faced with a command that is intimidating, they do it because they think that they have to and then runaway crying wolf. There have been a few times that Master has told me to do something that at first was very weird for me, especially since I am new to this lifestyle, but with just a little extra push I found that it wasn't that difficult and that I liked it but without Master's push I would have never know. It is a sign of a good Master to be able to take a limit and turn it into a like.
Being in a Master/slave relationship, is still a relationship it is still based on trust and communication, if you don't tell your Master/Mistress that something is especially difficult for you then they will never know that they are making you uncomfortable. My Master knows when something is really upsetting me and at that point we stop talk about it and see what needs to either a) try and work through it or b) leave it alone. Just as it is the responsibility of the slave to obey his/her Master/Mistress, it is also the responsibility of the Master/Mistress to take care of their property. If they don't take care of you, you will become broken and not only is that hurtful to you but also to your Master/Mistress, what good is a broken slave? It is a two-way street, it is in both parties best interest to make sure that the other half is okay and well.
Like my Master has said, it not that I should have no limits and do everything He says because I have to but that I should trust Master enough not to ask me to do something that would hurt me or push me too far. A good Master/Mistress knows their slaves well and know how much is too much, just as a good slave should know when their Master/Mistress is telling them to do a small task, something that you have done in the past.
This is all of course just my own opinion and what I have experienced with my Master, others of course may have a different view.
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