I am a straight male. I have a few kinks (being watched while masturbating, wearing panties, etc) but the one I keep the most secret is that I have recently discovered that I like to play with anal plugs.
unusual? Given that there are so many different toy’s available I don’t think it’s uncommon.
Are you embarrassed about it? If so, why? (It being embarrassing as a reason why it appeals is 100% valid) yes. I am. Straight guys aren’t supposed to be into this. But I am. And the embarrassment is part of the turn on. I love going to a store to shop for a new toy.
What draws you to this kink? It feels really good. Also, the forbidden nature of it and embarrassment I feel make it exciting.
What about it appeals to you? See above.
Have you explored it so far? I have bought and used a few toys. Put them in and walked around my neighborhood a few times with the plug on under my clothes. I have also worn them while masturbating.
If gD helped you explore it, what happened? Not yet. I would love that help.
What's your favourite fantasy/story about this kink, it could be something you have done in real life that you like to think about when you are craving this kink or just where your mind goes, or something you have read about/seen reported? I definitely intend to wear a plug for longer periods and run errands in the neighborhood/pick up coffee with it in. Also, I would love to do this with a vibrating plug even more.
If you fantasise about it and there is a fantasy which you love but wouldn’t/would struggle to do in real life what is it? (be as outrageous as you wish, if its an entirely humanly impossible , fantasy/ extremely taboo i don’t mind, feel free to spoiler if you wish)
I would love to wear the plug and masturbate while a stranger watches.
Would you like to explore that kink deeper? Yes
Does something hold you back? Time, ideas, not wanting or being ready to share with my spouse.
What tends to help you take a step further sexually and explore deeper in kinks/what might help push you to explore more? I think getting specific proposals of things I could do would help.
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