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Old 01-06-2018, 03:05 PM   #11
kurious kat
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I think it's fine to reach out to someone and express admiration for the qualities you see in them. When a compliment is personal or thoughtful, it might or might not go anywhere, but most can appreciate their work being noticed.

I only find PMs rude when:
  1. The person sending the PM asks for something that neither the recipient's profile, signature, nor posts suggest they're likely to be interested in.
  2. The sender has sent a similar message to that person in the past, but ignores or forgets that they've already declined.
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