Decades ago my wife and I, not long after our hunnymoon, started putting a dollar each into a bank each time we made love. The savings were to be spent on sexy things. As newlyweds the funds raised fairly quickly. We were to pay a dollar each, but many times I paid for both of us.
A dollar bought more in the 80s than it does today. But there wasn't as many interesting things to buy. Most of the mail order items tuned out to be disappointments. There were sex shops back then that were called Adult Book Stores, or Adult Museums; these were more pointed at single men than loving couples.
But, some purchases gave lasting memories. It paid for some lingerie, but most were to itchy. It paid for a pair of handcuffs that each of us wore from time to time, some padding was added as to not leave marks. It paid for many candles and massage oils; I'm very good at massage.
When the children came years later we started missing making the payments. And the payments became farther apart. Soon it was something we just laughed about. I have not looked into that ceramic bank in a long time. Perhaps I will soon.
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Readers should take the x dollar a month challenge presented above. But you could also start another.
I suggest that folks have another pot to collect funds for each time they climax. If you are the multiple type them it may be expensive, some allowance would need to be made, or agree that partners pay. Just call it your cum tax (not income tax).
One of the funds can be spent any way you like toward sexy things. The other decided my someone else, get dare suggestions and or polls, a get dare friend, or anyone else. You decide which one.
If you have access to sex shop, go there, find someone of the opposite sex, and ask "If you had xxx dollars to spend to buy something here for your partner, what you would buy." You could offer to help them buy what they came for in return for the advice and information. Or you could wait need the checkout and buy exactly what one of the next three people buys.
Have fun...
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