Being a dom with 22 years experience in BDSM, this is an interesting subject for many reasons. The interernet anonymises the BDSM relationship between a dominant and submissive individual. This is the very reason why I undertake a mixed method of domination including meetings. This keeps the relationship intact and the Dom is constantly reminded of the human interaction.
With BDSM, the relationship between Dom and sub is often seen as one sided, but in fact must include mutual respect. Without this element there can be no trust, and without trust there is little or no domination. It is vital therefore the buildup and discussions leading to acceptance by the Dom, and an understanding of the sub is gained.
It is the responsibility of the Dom to keep there sub or property safe. This is not only physical but mental as well. A Dom with experience and who has practiced for years can quickly determine where risks are present. This may be age, experience, requests and other tell tale signs.
It must also be said that if the relationship is working, there is always the ability of the sub to approach the Dom on any subject. This is the test of any true Dom and sub relationship. It is also the responsibility of the sub to ensure that while entering the relationship, they are doing so after prolonged discussions have taken place between the proposed Dom and sub. All of the above contribute towards respect, fulfillment and pleasure.
Mark
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