[Mistress Hanna]

Originally Posted by flon2

How would you say you get your money's worth when peeing on her?

What makes her cunt primitive?

I play with her anticipation. Sometimes I simply stand behind Puddles and let her wait, she know the inevitable is going to happen but not when.
Or I hump her head before pissing all over her and let her lick me clean afterwards.
Also we have a huge cup and she has to hold it while I pee in it. Afterwards I give her a nice enema with my piss. You know, stuff like that. It's to humiliate her and I make sure she is :).

The most obvious reason is the amount of hair. We had been to a nudist beach, a nudist bath house and on a nudist trail and I've never seen a woman with more hair down there. Especially women our age keep it shaven or at least trimmed.
Second is the pigmentation, her skin is just slightly darker then mine but her genitals are really dark.
Also she has a very prominent mons pubis and a thick innie pussy but her clit is still very noticeably, particularly since we decided to add a vertical clit hood piercing :D.

Originally Posted by ReallyMadHermit

First, I'd like to thank everyone involved for making Puddles' journals public: I've enjoyed all of what I've read, and I really appreciate that such a real, long-term narrative exists here, it's thrilling to read about, and I'd argue it's educational as well! Porn should be assumed unrealistic, presumed a fantasy, but these first hand accounts, with such detail over such a long time, it's fascinating, so, thanks for putting that out there. I guess you could call me a fan? Yeah, I'm a fan.

I always find myself trying to make AMAs a little educational for everyone reading, so here I go doing that again:
What kind of principles do follow when deciding what to do with Puddles? I know it becomes intuitive after a while, you just know, but, I think it's safe to say a good portion of readers want what you have, so, what kind of advice would you give for prospective adopters of willing pets? What kind of challenges did you encounter as you became her mistress?

Oh, and please, feel free to share any peripheral details, my words elude more to the subject than the specific language of the questions, and I'd love it if I got a good story or two in reply, but above all: thanks, thanks for the lovely journals, thanks for the the many threads sharing her story, thanks for the AMA, and, thank you in advance for you reply, have a great day!

You're mostly welcome. We really appreciate it, especially since we had some “trouble” with some haters lately – maybe you noticed the strange outburst in votes, embedding out threads in 5* while ours are rated 2*. Well, some people live a sad and unhealthy life and feel better if they pull others down. Anyway.

To answer your questions:
Her Master mostly does some planing to make sure she doesn't embarrass us or herself in public. In the safe-space of our home we always let our gut decide.
In the beginning of our relationship I also often asked myself what I could do with her without risking our friendship but since Puddles decided that she valued her slavery more than my friendship it became quite easy. Ok, sometimes I overdid it and Stephan “scolded” / advised me. But he never did in front of her :). As you said, now I just “know”. But that was one of the biggest difficulties in the beginning.

Now we simply do what's fun for us and of course it should be fun for our pet as well. But sometimes we push her out of her comfort zone. We're keeping a mixture of pushing her in the right direction without pushing her to far and keep it fun for her as well.
What we have is, I hesitate to say “unique”, but rare and we are aware of that. But I would say the advice is the same for all kinds of BDSM-relationships.
Trust, communication, respecting limits. The sub is secretly the one in charge, she set the frame we as Doms can move in and we mustn't break it, if the sub wants to stop we must stop. That's non-negotiable.
We're proud that Puddles never had to use her safeword because we know her body language and look for the non-verbal signs she gives us if it's slowly getting to much.
Well, she's our pet for 8 years now, so it would be a shame for us if we didn't know the signs ;).

Interestingly Annaxx asked Stephan for advice for becoming a pet-girl some weeks ago, so I'll stick close to his answer:
First: If you decide to turn someone into a pet it should fit her character.
For example, a cat is independent and cuddly, a dog is obedient and docile and a horse is intelligent and loyal. Yes, there are also cows and pigs, but for us that count more as "livestock" and not "pet", so we're not a big fan of that - unless you like to milk or fatten up someone ;).

I'll just use Puddles as an example:
She's a natural submissive and had thought about being a slave by her own. But Stephan couldn't see that in her, she just didn't have the mentality for it. He saw a pet in her, which was her second option she thought about. And later she told us if she knew it would be like this it would have been her first option as well. She's the born pet.
Funnily enough, she also asked if she could be a slut. We quickly put a stop to her because that really wouldn't have suited her :D.
So she became a pet, but a cat would absolutely not be an option. She likes to cuddle, but not in public. However, she is less independent; after all, she has always been told what to do or not to do her whole life. And she was definitely not a horse.
But she is obedient and likes to learn. She has many characteristics that Stephan associated with a collie and that's why he trained her as a dog.

But we combined her wish to become a slave. While we're at work Puddles cleans, cooks and do grocery shopping – all the stuff a good slave would do. So we don't have to do that when we come home again and it gives us more time to play with our pet.
Never in all those years the „BDSM-Police“ knocked on out door and told us that we were playing it wrong ;). So, feel free and everybody should have fun.

Don't worry if something you planed do work as expected.
It gave Puddles cuckqeuan fantasy a huge boost watching Stephan and me having sex and we tried to take another step by having sex without her watching us. It was really disappointing for all of us.
But after a while we gave it another try and now it works like a charm.
Maybe it helps that I make sure she can hear me, I never found the idea of being quiet during sex appealing :D. Puddles on the other hand had to learn to become “vocal” :D.

But we as her Owners have to take responsibility in a different, much larger context than usual and give Puddles very special attention and mindfulness because sometimes she tend to bite off more than she can chew. We have to take care of her, that is our obligation as her Owners.

Puddles can immerse herself incredibly deeply in the role of the chosen animal and completely free herself from everyday behaviour patterns and responsibilities. Especially since she decided to have the 24/7-PTE in 2022.
That's what makes her (and other pets) so special. She shed everything human and embraced an other way of thinking. But precisely because she can immerse herself so deeply, mentally getting out of this role often takes longer than with other games and sometimes can led to a “drop” in between. And it can occur suddenly and then really be a shitty experience.
Puddles had two “drops” in eight years. But these were due to external circumstances and not because of pet play, but after that she needed a longer break. Even then, she no longer wanted or could stop certain behaviours. Like wearing her collar or staying naked at home, so we let her, and lately she told us that when Stephan takes her to a party from his company she always felt like an actress. Some people would say that she's a lost cause ;).

So if Puddles experience a drop, we must be and are ready to catch her and not only support but also carry her if necessary. And if she then would decide to end this play it would be ok for us.

I know that in her rules it's stated that she don't have any privacy from us and many owners keep their pet in a cace for that reason.
But like every pet, Puddles sometimes needs a place to retreat. Not just in case things get a bit too much for her (if she just need a break and don't want to stop pet play), but also for „just because“.
For this reason we decided against a cage and instead opted for a permanent dog house. We also chose it so large that Puddles can lie comfortably in it - roughly speaking, it's a 90x200cm bed in a box.

Sorry if I can't give you a model solution, every sub, every pet is unique. I guess it's easier if you find someone who's already willing to be a pet in a forum or a dating platform because then you just have to talk about what kind of pet they want to be.

Nevertheless, thank you very much for the question. To be honest, it was one of the best questions we've read in an AMA and I hope the answer is satisfying for you ;).

Originally Posted by musket

Have you done anything with her in public that embarrassed her?

What is the worst and funniest thing you have had her do at a get together or party?

No. We tried to make Puddles more outgoing by giving her a semi-public task.
She had to open the door for a pizza delivery in a very short dress with her chastity belt beneath and a metal ring that kept her ass nicely gaping. If the delivery girl would have looked at the right moment she would have clearly noticed that our pet was wearing a chastity belt. Puddles was completely overwhelmed and during the talk we had afterwards she asked us to not put her in a situation like this again. So that was too much for her and we realized that this is something she will never be ready for. But that's ok.
As long it's without obvious sexual intension (like I said above, we had been to a nudist beach, nudist bath house and nudist trail) it's absolutely fine for her.

For your second question: Nothing. We make sure she don't embarrass herself and us in public.
My parents know that she's our pet and my mother have seen her crawling and eating from a bowl (but dressed). Of course we tease Puddles in public but that's pretty much all.