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Old 01-06-2012, 06:29 PM   #66
nailo
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I admit I skipped a couple pages so this may have been touched.

I have been interested in D/s for many years and done light study over the years, nothing major. But I came across something once that I thought was very interesting. I can't remember how it was phased exactly, but in a nutshell it said something along the lines of this;

"Though the submissive relinquishes control to the dominant member, and for all show is under total subject to their master, it is in actualality the submissive who holds the true power and control in a D/s relationship."

It took me a while to understand this. But I think it is something that should be considered by all who choose to pursue either role.
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