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Originally Posted by pluky
Cool ad, but I'll be honest with you I find two lines in it a bit off putting as you seem to put a lot of pressure on the future Sub :
They should be able to not feel comfortable doing something and expressing that.
With everything it's always ok to fuck up the first time and learn.
I dunno man 🤷
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Of course I want someone to be comfortable.... I'm sane. If someone is not comfortable, I would hope they'd have enough of a brain to say something to me. I've done this for 10+ years. Of course comunication is key in this. In fact, I said, "I encourage you to ask me questions." That means including questions if sokmething brushes a limit. Again, I'm sane.
Isn't it good for me to want you to succeed? If you ask me before you do something and know what I want, then its my fault that you did it wrong. I am NOT perfect. I want you to do what I want correctly the first time, so you do not have to do it twice. I'm not here to waste either of our's times (unless its a fun things of course
). Again, "I encourage you to ask me questions."