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Originally Posted by pluky
Can switching actually have a place inside the same dynamic ? Can someone go back to respecting you and fearing you the same way after dominating you, seeing you in a lower position, maybe even degrading you ? I don't believe so personally.
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IMO it depends upon the acytual dynamic of the relationship. There are situations where the D/s dynamic is an out-and-out lifestyle which rules the whole life time, in this case I agree with you.
In other cases the D/s dynamic is simply an erotic game, confinated into the sphere of playtime, and in this case the switching mechanism could work. Even if, probably, in most of the cases one of the two has a dominating temperament that will make him/her be "less dominated" than the other when switching roles.