[Taskdesigner]

I definitely agree that it's an important part of the student life. But having to ask for pesmission doesn't mean she won't get it. I can imagine she can earn such permission even most of the time (unless there are some reasons to punish her). But I'd like to teach her (of course if she likes such approach, after all I told her to choose only what she likes) that when she wants something, she should ask her dom(s) first. When she'll get invited for some action, her first thought should be "I will ask my dom, I hope he will allow that" and in that case, the answer might be in 90+% yes and it's perfectly fine for me :-)

However as I said above, probably each one of us (and there aren't so many of us here so far) might have very different ideas, approach or customs... :-)