[Taskdesigner]

Well, to start with, it's quite important to find out what kind of sub you are... Do you like rules (maybe so according to the post)? Ok... Should those rules be just about sexual part? Do you like things like clothing control? Free time acitivities control? Bedtime? Anything else?
Are you the kind of sub who willingly wants to follow them or do you need bigger control because you might try to cheat on them?
Do you find joy in simple pleasing your dominant? Or do you need a lot of attention? Or do you need to be "put in your place" often?
Would you like to share the dynamics with more dominants (easier for having almost all the time someone in reach, harder because each one of them might have somehow different expectations) or do you prefer just single one (then you need to create some mechanics that allow you to live by your rules even when he's not online).
There are quite a lot of things to consider and from my experience, there are types of subs who are much easier to create a very nice long-term relationship and then there are others who might be absolutely amazing for single or short-term sessions but usually not for the longer ones...