[sadistslut]

Originally Posted by ReallyMadHermit

I'm sure you have some very intense things done to you in the dungeon, so my question pertains to physical sensitivity, how do you keep yourself physically sensitive and keep from desensitizing due to intense stimulation?

Being aroused by intense stimulation seems natural, though that brings up another question that might be fun to discuss: how arousing is said intense stimulations? How arousing is your experience doing anything in the dungeon? There have been more than a few descriptions regarding your experiences in the dungeon, but they've been mostly factual, can you talk about how being used makes you feel?



Also, thank you for the notes on aftercare, in a thread discussing the very real life of a slave, I'm glad we have a piece discussing aftercare. It's very important, but as you yourself have experienced, is often overlooked and easily neglected.

Is there anything else of importance you think should be discussed more in BDSM, that is often overlooked? Think about the hopefuls who find this AMA and get a fascinating peek into a lifestyle they can only fantasize about, what would you want to tell them, be they slave or master?

Great question slut would say. It is difficult to adjust the mind to be sensitive to impact play in the long run. That is why, it is important to have good enough gap between long impact play sessions. There are multiple types of impact play session, sometimes it is more fun, with light spanks and thuds, sometimes the intensity is medium and other times it is really high intensity session. All of these need proper planning, especially the high intensity one as body and more importantly mind needs a lot of prepping before going for it. For slut personally, she enjoys the light and medium intensity session, it is always kept interesting with the talk with dominants during the session, them discussing about how slut is doing without letting slut speak, bringing the elements of different toys into play, from nipple clamps to gags to sensory deprivation. All of it adds to keep things interesting.

In the high intensity/ high impact session, it is mostly reserved for the events when the pure motive is to serve the dominants in using body as a canvas and various tools as their paint brush. Dominants enjoy the moans and shouts at each hit and slave in that moment is only happy about serving their dominants. If other dominants are participating, slave wants to do even better to make her dominants proud. It doesn't really add to the sexual sensitivity in any way.

Sluts dungeon visits are really fun. Home dungeon visits often involves mix of pain and pleasure, not always sure what to expect from the sessions. There is often mix of both but in what ways they will come is always a surprise.

While the event dungeon visits are more intense, environment is more heavy with few slaves and many dominants who join the events every week. There is often heavy impact play and serving dominants in different ways. It makes slut feel wanted, makes slut feel really important when taken to the events.

Like you said aftercare is really important and few more important things are consent for the activity, planning for the act and respecting the safe word. All 3 of these are really important for both dominant and slave to enjoy the session to its fullest.