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Originally Posted by JamieDarkheart
I don't really like to give or receive dares that induce reluctance. Instead, I much prefer dares that force an ultimatum, a predicament. With both types of dares you can see how far a sub will go for you, which is incredibly empowering and hot!! But I prefer a more gentle approach. This approach also is actually MORE manipulative because it give the illusion of choice to the sub so they "only have themselves to blame" for the outcome.  |
See, what you're describing here I like a lot more than reluctant dares! Reluctant dares are just me pushing myself to do something, but an ultimatum is more chaotic, more scary, and way more thrilling and fun than just pushing yourself to do something in my opinion. I'm also extremely shy and get reluctant naturally though, which makes me feel bad because I feel like I look like I'm not having a good time when I am lol