I don't really like to give or receive dares that induce reluctance. Instead, I much prefer dares that force an ultimatum, a predicament. With both types of dares you can see how far a sub will go for you, which is incredibly empowering and hot!! But I prefer a more gentle approach. This approach also is actually MORE manipulative because it give the illusion of choice to the sub so they "only have themselves to blame" for the outcome.
