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Originally Posted by nudeforlife
This is, for all intents and purposes, social suicide. Thank you for the dare but unfortunately I won't be doing this.
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Fair enough. It might not go as badly as you think, but... you're right. If it
does go bad, it could be very bad indeed.
What if you just talked to her about it, no conditions or expectations, just feel her out about what she thought of seeing you, as delicately as you can?
Like, start off with, "Hey, um... so the other day, when you saw me naked when my towel fell, um... I hope that didn't bother you?"
Then, if she says something like, "No, not at all, I thought it was cute," then you'll have an opening to admit that it kinda turned you on, too, maybe like, "You did? I honestly can't stop thinking about it..."
If you get negative vibes at any point, you can switch to apology mode, and no social suicide will have occurred.