[Isabell]

You can meet other Doms/Domes on the internet at sites like this one or on sites that are specifically related to the BDFSM lifestyle. Most of the sites have some type of community interaction like this one does.

What about finding a Dom/Dome you can talk with in person? The best thing I can think of is finding your local BDFSM group. There is usually at least one group not to far from larger cities. They will most likely have members that live further away from city as well. How do you find the group(s)? You can look on the internet. Many groups have links to other groups so that you find a group that is close to you. The other thing you can do is ask around at the local sex shops. They should be able to at least point you in the right direction to keep looking if they don't know. Find any regionally printed out adult magazines and contact them telling them what you want to talk in person to other Doms/Domes.

Once you find the closest group to you find out if there is a munch or play date that you can attend. Once you show up be honest about the fact that you want to learn. There is usually one or two people there who tend to take new people under their wing and teach them.

Don't be afraid to talk with slaves/subs as well. Ones that have a good deal of experience will usually being willing to help you as well. They may even agree to allow you to try your first couple of sessions with them as the bottom.