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moxie · 02-11-2011, 06:05 PM

I will preface this by saying that I have been there and that I feel your pain and that I don't give what I know is painful advice lightly. My advice would be to let him go. I realize that is much easier said than done but that in the long run in the type of circumstances that you describe that is usually the best. When you are apart and you have distance from things it can be easy to see only the good things and forget or minimize the bad things that happened.

All of that said, I know it is VERY hard to move past it, but until you do it will continue to hurt.

I hope it all goes well for you!

Moxie

02-11-2011, 06:05 PM	#8
moxie Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: USA Posts: 2,695	I will preface this by saying that I have been there and that I feel your pain and that I don't give what I know is painful advice lightly. My advice would be to let him go. I realize that is much easier said than done but that in the long run in the type of circumstances that you describe that is usually the best. When you are apart and you have distance from things it can be easy to see only the good things and forget or minimize the bad things that happened. All of that said, I know it is VERY hard to move past it, but until you do it will continue to hurt. I hope it all goes well for you! Moxie __________________ "Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, give me liberty, or give me death" - Patrick Henry - March 23, 1775