Thanks all; we have spoke before about this, its not really any one of us that doesnt want to do it, it just never happens as sex. Things start off, one thing leads to another, and its never sex lol.
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Originally Posted by sweetsong
She could be afraid of getting pregnant, had a bad experience, isn't getting lubricated enough and is afraid to say she needs lube, or a lot of other stuff.
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I maybe should tell you a little more about us;
she had cancer a while ago, and chemo has affected her tostostorone levels. She will find it hard to get pregnant when we want to try, and does find it hard to get lubricated. I suppose that could be somthing that get to her when it comes to sexy time...
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Originally Posted by lilysmaster
I agree with sweetsong, it maybe be fear of something, embarrassment, or the like. Talk it out, make exceptions, but definitely don't base a relationship on sex.
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Nah i know what you mean, we never base our relationship on sex; but its starting to look not great when an engaged couple havent had sex for 2 months.
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Originally Posted by Autumn
And I will give you one more piece of advice. Never ,take your partner for granted and expect them to just be there, or keep doing what they do now to make you happy and just you or the other person just take, take and take from the relationship and never give in return. Or one day that person just wont be there anymore, be it emotionally, or physically!!!!
I am sure it will all work out!!
Best of luck xx
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Oh dont worry, we love each other to pieces. The thing that I mentioned; that she believes she is being one sided, we have [just] talked about and believe it comes down to confidence. She has a fantasy to be a naughty school girl and me to be a teacher; but we haven't done it because she is nervous... So if she hasnt got the confidence to do her sexual fantasy, then its understandable why she doesnt want to do mine lol.
Thanks all for the advice
