[Consensus]

I shall be honest, Cstelle already gave a better answer than anything I could write. It is summed up, for me, rather well there. I am a little disappointed, because I like answering in long-winded fashion and I have nothing to add.

As to ruined orgasms... I only recently (like in 2015) found out what they were and discovered that I had been doing them since I first orgasmed ever because I didn't know that that was not the normal way of doing things. In that sense, I have seen animals doing that too - not stimulating at the moment of ejaculation in sex - so they seem perfectly natural. Wolves, in particular, seem guilty (can wolves be guilty?) of this. Thus, to my mind, it seems perfectly natural. It does not alleviate horniness as much either.

Since 2015 I have rather struggled not to have ruined orgasms.

Also, I clicked 'there' on Jaro's sig too - it's bloody brilliant!