1: Would you rather be tied up and teased or tie someone up and tease them?
I'd like to be tied up and teased.
2: You can either cum any time you wish but you have to swallow it all, or you can only cum once a year but you don't have to swallow.
I like to have my orgasm controlled and having to ask permission, but once a year it's too extreme for me. So neither.
3: Be blindfolded and receive oral but you don't know what gender the person is giving it, or being tied up and fucked but you can't stop whoever it is fucking you
They both sound good to me, the second feels more risky.
4: You can have sex with anyone you want, but they are in complete control of all your orgasms and you have to worship them, or you can be worshipped and dominate, but it's whoever wants to fuck you
Being submissive, I would take the first option without thinking twice. I'd really like for them to have that kind of control.
5: Worship feet or have your feet worshipped?
I like feet, I'd like worship them.
Scenario 1: You're walking home one night on your own when you are suddenly bundled into a van, tied up and taken to a secret location. You're blindfolded and scared. Your captors give you a choice, you can be throat fucked for an hour nonstop and take as much cum as possible and be free, or be used as a slave for 12 hours and be freed
I'd rather being their (non sexual) slave for 12 hours than being forced to have any kind of sex with them.
6: Tied and whipped or tied and have hot wax dripped on you?
Maybe whipped, I don't enjoy pain. I never tried hot wax.
7: Worship a couple (suck his cock to get it ready for her etc) or be tied up and made to watch someone fuck your SO
I think I may enjoy worshipping a couple.
8: Eat your own cum or someone else's?
Someone's else, I don't like the taste of my own after an orgasm.
9: Lick cum off someone's feet or snowball them?
Lick them.
10: Tied up Spread Eagle while a group males and females ejaculate all over you, or tied in doggy style and fucked in the ass by strapons and cocks?
The second seems a lot more fun 
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Scenario 2: You've been naughty and cheated on your SO. They've found out and they're pissed! You get given a choice. They'll forgive you if they get to tie you up, put you in chastity and make you watch while they fuck someone else (and you both know it's the best sex they'll ever have), their new lover gets to use you as well but you won't get and pleasure from it. Or, they'll forgive you but you have to violate a limit, get humiliated, and you must deepthroat 5 other guys but once again, you won't be allowed to cum.
Do I get to choose my own punishment? I really cannot choose, they are both bad.