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Originally Posted by Butterfly
To be honest, when doing anal, shit happens! If you are not willing to get a bit messy at times, then it is not an activity you should be doing.
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Yessss - the idea that you can and should be squeaky clean every time you do anal is either unrealistic or is going to severely limit when you can engage in the activity. Intensely preparing for it every now and then can be nice, especially to add to a power dynamic, but constantly keeping clean an area that was never meant to be clean isn't a healthy practice.