1. Laying or kneeling?
Kneeling, there's just something more submissive about kneeling rather than laying.
2. Bondage or orgasm control?
Orgasm Control, just the power the controller has...
just mhmmm.
3. Ass or boobs?
Ass, I'm pansexual and an ass is less conspicuous to look at.
4. Dick or vagina?
Dick >.> Just sucking a dick is love.
5. Dom or sub?
Sub.
6. Denial or forced?
Denial >//< It's frustrating and so.. so.. horny-making (I know that's not a word)
7. Hypnosis or extreme pain?
Hypnosis? Although ideally, neither.
8. Collars or cuffs?
Collar. Here goes the submission aspect again 
9. Scat or blood?
Scat? Blood? I honestly would list both as limits.
10. Masturbating with your hand or with toys?
Hand... I've never really tried with toys.
11. Get messy with food or mud?
Food, because FOOD!
12. Lots of sex or just in moderation?
Lots... it's sex
13. Gentle love or psychotic sex-crazed crazy sessions?
Sex-crazy 
14. Spanking with your hand or 'other' implements?
Hand
15. Get spanked with a hand or 'other' implements?
Other
16. Anal: giving or receiving?
Recieving... My ass being stretched... mhmm