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Originally Posted by sir sam
Anybody that will go before you will effectively crank up your time  . |
Yes, it is a traidoff. I am glad that she is waiting for the good of the group/thread. She is giving a better opportunity to some unknown person to jump in. Others before yourself gets my praise.
Saying that she wants to wait a given time also puts some pressure on anyone just thinking about it. Should I go now? Should I watch more? If I go now it won't be any easier, right? There is no better time than today if you are going to do it at all.
To anyone thinking about joining: Even if you can't schedule it for a few more days, even a week or so, say so. Maybe you want to go during lent? It is likely that those who have stood, like myself, will wait for you. You would just have to worry about another new person like you bumping you up a notch. Think about it. But not too long.
dave