[lola.fox]

Originally Posted by itslate

This is so strange to me. If I invest a lot of time thinking of and writing tasks for you and if we fit together, why not make one single quick proof picture?

It should matter to my sub that I believe her.

perhaps you should spend more time in the 'getting to know eachother' stage then, instead of jumping right into tasks. i personally wouldn't care to send anything unless i felt a connection, or knew i was going to stick around..otherwise why would i bother proving i was real to you, if i didn't think i'd want to continue talking to you?

also, you could always try to ask around about the member you're about to enter into a d/s relationship with. you might find someone who knows they're not who they say they are, or people who've skyped with them before and can vouch for them. i know that won't work with members who only have been a part of the site for a day or two.. but you probably shouldn't jump right into relationships with those people anyway.