[Shadowice]

I completely agree, in fact this is often a conversation I tend to have with girls when im in the process of taking them in as a sub/slave. I will ask if shes into humiliation, degregation (they not really some of my favorite things I want to treat them like princesses 95% of the time), and if there are any words phrases or such she would like me to avoid. At the end of the day if shes not happy and upset it just ruins any sort of relationship you have built up.