20/f 'motivated' studying
 

Hiya!
I have three exams next week, but right now I am sitting in the library and have been scrolling on getdare for two hours instead of studying. This happens to me way too often, I get distracted, loose focus and do something else.
I want to motivate myself to study, or, more importantly, punish myself for losing focus. Any idea on that?
Also, if someone has a suggestion on how to get my sleep schedule under control (wouldn't mind a 1:1 dynamic or something like that)... any ideas are welcome.

My family is home nearly all the time, so vibrators are, unfortunately, out of the question. Also no walking around the house naked or anything like that, obviously.
Whatever the suggestions are, they shouldn't take up hours of my time, because that would be very counter productive - my goal is to study.

If you feel like it, you can be very rude or degrading in the replies, or you can set unrealistic standards, I kinda like that. But that is very optional.

I hope everything made sense, and you have fun thinking of something for me.
Thanks in advance!

For every 15 minutes on getdare or reading smut you owe 30 minutes of studying. I mean serious studying, no getting on your phone for texting, browsing the web, studying and only studying. When you owe a study debt, you are not allowed to cum. You do have to edge for every one hour of study debt you owe. Whenever you are on getdare or reading erotica both of your holes must be filled, you can choose or ask someone to help you.
For example, say today you spend an hour on getdare and 30 minutes reading smut, you owe 3 hours of study time and three edges. 2 hours for getdare and 1 hour for erotica.
Questions, comments, concerns?

No cumming until you ace your exam. Every point off of 100 for each of your tests will result in one additional day of not cumming.

Find your study chair, to leave it you need to perform tasks. In your study chair you may only use your devices for work. To leave your study chair for one minute you may perform either
1 edge
10 deepthroats
10 anal or pussy strokes
10 ass spanks
5 pussy spanks
10 minutes wearing nipple clamps

Hm, that sounds interesting, thank you. Would I owe the studying on the same day? Because, say as an example, today I spent 2 hours doing things I shouldn't have starting at 7pm, that would mean I'd owe 4 hours of studying at 9pm, which could become logistically difficult (because ruining my already bad sleep schedule is also counter productive). Should I transfer it to the next day or rather have a punisment for every 15 or 30 minutes that I can't make up studying? I kinda like the punishment idea more, that way I don't get overwhelmed with guilt the next day and go into a blockade / shutdown. Do you have an idea for a punishment?

I also like the idea of having to have both holes stuffed when doing things I shouldn't, because that can certainly keep me from wasting my time in public on the internet.

thanks for the suggestions! i'm not sure if i can hold out cumming that long, that's over a week left and then it's christmas where i probably won't get any me-time in either... and about the points, i only get the results back mid-january, so that's not really an option, i don't want to wait that long. but maybe i could do a punishment then for each point that's under 100? do you have an idea that isn't denial?
but the ida with the study chair, i like that one. not possible when studying in the library, but certainly at home! or i could make a list for every time i leave the chair while in the library and make up for it later?

May I ask what you're studying (and at what level) and what percentage constitutes a success? Also, it'd be good to know what study materials you have available. Do you have past papers or sample exams? Do you have a textbook (or textbooks) that the exams are based on? Notes from class/lectures?

Sleep is important and sleeping properly is hard, maybe harder than passing exams. My two top tips would be to get up early-ish tomorrow (7 or 8 AM) no matter what time you go to bed tonight. You'll be knackered for the day but if you force yourself you'll be pretty exhausted come bed time and find it MUCH easier to get up the next day. It'll hurt but it's worth it.

My second sleep tip is to take lots of breaks from your studying and go for half hour walks. Studying is hard and you can only absorb so much at a time, getting fresh air and exercise will mean that not only will you study better but by the end of the day you'll be mentally exhausted from the studying and hopefully your body will be at least a bit tired from the walking (rather than bursting with energy from sitting around all day).

i study special education (first semester of my bachelor's program). to pass, i need 60% i think. success would be more like 80, but i've procrastinated so long that i doubt it's possible. i mostly use my notes and the handouts, write summaries of those and make flashcards. in 1/3 subjects i have the flashcards ready and have started revising them, in one subject i'm nearly finished with the summary, and in the last one i've barely started.

thanks for the tips! problem: i have to get up at 6am anyways because my lectures mostly start at 8 and the way there takes me over an hour. i also try to get movement in by walking to / from the library and uni, and cycling to the train station and back (that's a pretty long way). i am constantly very exhausted, but can't get myself to put away my phone in the evening (it's a mix between insomnia, anxiety and doom scrolling...). that's why i think strict rules made by someone who isn't me or my parents might help.

So say on monday you spend 4 hours reading erotica and 2 hours on getdare. That is your right and you can do that. You will owe 12 hours of studying and 12 edges after that. You obviously can’t study 12 hours straight for the rest of monday. You can keep incurring more debt on tuesday and the rest of the week but you cannot orgasm until your study debt is at 0 edges and 0 minutes studying. So however much you elect to build up in debt is entirely up to you but you also cannot orgasm till that debt is clear. Obviously to orgasm you can read/listen to smut and it will apply to your debt, but that debt won’t be official till you stop reading/listening/surfing the world wide porn distributor. Make sense?

ah yeah, that makes sense. on another note, you suggested edging for every hour of studying. sometimes when i edge, i accidentally go to far and tip over. would you please give me a punishment in advance in case i do orgasm? maybe that'll keep me from letting it happen, too.
i'll try to report how it's going, but i make no promises, i'm very unreliable sometimes haha...

Happily. If you do go over you have two options, your next three orgasms will be ruins or you have to keep masturbating till you can’t take it anymore due to overstimulations. The choice is yours. I prefer the ruin but that’s not possible for everyone

It sounds like the studying that you ARE doing is pretty good studying, so that's good. I would suggest that with limited time it's good to be focused on which bits of the course you learn (this is advice for passing exams not necessarily learning all the material in a useful way). Most subjects exams will only have about 10 to 12 questions total that just get repeated in various combinations for the exam. In (most) university level exams you'll get a choice of questions (e.g. choose 4 out of 6 to answer) and if this is the case you can be even more focused. Look at the last few years of exams (they are probably for sale if not for free online) and pick out the most common questions that you feel confident you can learn to answer in time. If you do it right and get a bit lucky you can get 75 percent on the exam while only actually learning 25 percent of the material.

As for phone or internet based procrastination, there's an app for that. They're designed for parents to monitor/control children's access but the work pretty well for grownups too. I'm not at my pc just now but when I get home I'll pm you some links if you can't find them yourself.

unfortunately, apps like that don't really work for me because they usually make me angry and i just disable them... but i think working with what instructions i got so far will be okay. thanks for all the advice!

i can maybe alternate in case. thanks! i have decided to also alter your 'both holes stuffed' rule so that, if i do go on sites i shouldn't without being stuffed, i have to spend the same amount of time stuffed while studying.

Sounds like a plan. Do try and let us know how it goes. I like knowing how well my dares/tasks do so that I know how well I did creating it.

This is an accumulation of all rules; correct me if I missed anything.

• 15 mins of misbehaving = 30 mins of studying owed
• all time misbehaving must be spent stuffed
• if not possible, the stuffed time must be made up for while studying
• for every hour of study debt owed, 1 edge is owed
• once a study session starts, i must not leave my chair unless i perform one of the following tasks:

1 edge
10 deepthroats
10 anal or pussy strokes
10 ass spanks
5 pussy spanks
10 minutes wearing nipple clamps

• if in public, the numbers of time i left my chair will be marked and the punishments will be made up for later