Ask a FtM Sissy anything!
 

Thanks to very caring people on this site, I could safely explore sissy play without getting hurt, but it is edgeplay (physically or mentally risky kink stuff). Because yeah, of course, for a trans guy (FtM, girl become guy), pretending to be a girl is very edgy edgeplay since being seen as one was a terrible ordeal for so long, and most people probably wouldn't even understand how it's possible. If I want to be a guy, why would I want to be a girl again? :confused:
So I figured an AMA might be interesting. And you can ask me embarrassing things at the same time so take advantage of it :P


* I am not a full-time sissy, even on Getdare. There are moments I get in the mood and mindset, and many others I go about my business being kinky in other ways.
* This partially answers the bottom question, but I'm convinced you guys will still want to understand better: I don't "want to be a girl", and neither does any other sissy, a sissy wants to be humiliated as a feminized male. Becoming a girl is what a MtF does, and it's not kinky, it's, well... You know. It's like half the human population. :scratchchin:

Oh, I know what I can ask you!

How the hell did you come up with your username?

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As you can see in my sig, I have nine hole, which makes me a half-golf.
Cause of the vagina.

Very deep right? Like my holes.

Hi - MtF here (you know whats funny? - my real name is actually lily now ) , still havent come out tho and might need help, how did you come out?

Hi Lily! #TeamLily?

There's no one universal way to come out. If it's someone you can't afford to lose like close family, a spouse, etc. I'd say, try to get one person to support you first and go together.
The main danger, if the person you want to come out to loves you, is that they get scared for you (and even for themselves because they'd feel like they can't trust what they see anymore). This can get angry reactions, and in extreme cases, complete shut-offs. So what needs to come across, and it does better if the person can see it's not just you, someone supports you, is that you are not insane, and that you are not going to be a freak. That being a freak and a loser is what would happen to you if you didn't follow your heart because this isn't a mental disorder, it's neurological, your brain is wired like a girl's (there are neurology studies on this, male and female brains *are* different). You need a best buddy.

If the problem is coming out to that best buddy, being very intimate and very serious, but also very rational and careful of their emotions, helps a lot. Having someone to tell those things helps being secure and calm, but being secure and calm also helps to come out efficiently and with dignity.

Best of luck!!! :D

Thank you ^-^ , i think this might help me alot #teamLily!

My gf and one of my closest friends already know (i told them 2 months ago) and they are very supportive etc, and the fact that my gf is bi only makes it better, the only problem i have is telling my other friends and parents - i'm so scared that they are going to reject me :/

Anyway, since this is an AMA i might as well ask some questions ^^

What was the last humiliating task you did?

(For parents, having a sibling as the support buddy helps a lot, just saying).

If you mean the last that I was *ordered* to do, it's masturbating yesterday by rubbing my sissy pussy outdoors (late at night, in a deserted place), as I was already planning to go there in full drag. I did, but I didn't manage to cum. It was less humiliating than I'd have thought! Maybe because it was scary?

But if you mean the last humiliating thing I did, it's getting dressed up again and putting on heels+plug. Right now. Oh and drawing pink hearts in make up on my face in random places, one for each time I cum. It's a surprisingly humiliating thing to do and to wear afterwards... :o

What's the most humiliating piece of clothing you have? ;)

Tough one :P
I think it's this one pair of plain black cotton panties, in which I cut a hole for the asshole, for the pussy entrance, and for the dick! It makes me feel much more exposed than being naked!

Do you like to be naked?
How do you keep your pubic hair?
What would be the best way to tie you up?
Where do you like to be spanked?
What was the most daring hidden public dare you ever did?
What is your opinion on feet?

Do you use your dick or pussy to pee?
Odd, I know. I think that's the first time I've had to ask that...

If the temperature is right, I love being naked because it's more comfortable. I don't find it very sexual though. I didn't like it before because I disliked my body, but now it's ok. :)

I keep my pubic hair natural (except for the occasional trim). I would love to experiment, but I am too worried that doing anything lasting remotely girlish to my body could make me lose credibility as a FtM (at the doctor's, etc). It's sad but trans people constantly need to "prove" they are a "real" guy/girl.

Ooooh the best way to tie me up??? Damn I don't know! I only got to be tied up by someone else a handful of times...
I'm thinking, on my back, arms apart in whatever way, thighs spread and pushed up so they're horizontal, with my feet tied in the air above my knees, so that everything is completely exposed. Maybe with my butt a little further than the table I'm on so that I'm really accessible. But what really makes it hot is that I can't loosen it at all no matter how hard I try, and the least I can move the better. I'd need a sturdy frame to hold it all up together! But really any tight inescapable bondage that exposes me entirely and isn't a stress position is perfect

Where I like to be spanked? On the ass like everyone ^^
And also the pussy I admit. Not the dick, hurts too much. Actually, when you're holding and desperate, bladder spanking can also be really fun and effective!
EDIT: I'm realizing I also love for my asshole to get a good spanking :P

I love hidden public but I wasn't given many good creative dares on that. The most daring I did was probably just wearing panties in a situation where I was worried I could get asked to undress (a doctor's, but not one that was supposed to ask me to undress). I think I even wore boxers on top of the panties because I was too afraid.
Maybe rather the time I had to tape my crotch with parcel tape, and be around family like that... Come on people send me hidden public dares!

My opinion on feet, is that stubbing your toes is terrible. :) I don't mind feet but I don't have a fetish for their shape or the smell (if it's disgusting, it's een a turn-off). However being at someone's feet is really hot, and then they can become sexy just because of the domination!


I never had bottom surgery, aka genital surgery. Right now, it is the only part of me that looks female. So I pee like a girl. It doesn't look like a regular pussy though,thanks to the hormonal treatment, this is why I call it a dick. If you want to understand it better you can just look up "FtM" on basically any porn site and you'll find masturbation videos where FtMs jerk it like guys but still have a pussy.
Some of them are really well endowed, I'm fucking jealous!

Is it possible to misgender you, or are you fully immune?

Of course. As a Kinky type, I'm immune to all Gender-type attacks. You'd just lose a turn.

Seriously though, of course it's possible to misgender me, it's possible to misgender anyone. If I call you miss, I'm misgendering you. It just means I use the wrong gender.

Now, I won't get triggered and explode in a cloud of feminism. Honest mistakes are not offensive, whether you're confused or you simply took me for a lady on the bus because I'm short and have my back on you (when it happens, people are very embarrassed when I turn around and it's funny if anything). When people treat me like a girl on purpose because they deny my identity, as in "you were born with a pussy so act like it", yeah, I'm sad and lose respect for that guy, but all I do is go away and cheer myself up. They're pretty hopeless, arguing with those is about as useless as arguing with a homophobic guy if you're gay.
Once upon a time it would have ruined my day to meet those types, but I don't suffer as much now from dysphoria, so I can take it cool.


If I'm being a little sissy online though, and I get treated like a prissy little girl to embarrass me as a guy, I'm gonna be super humiliated and super horny and thankful :p

Do you want to grow a beard? A mustache?

Some kind of facial hair?