Questions about names in kink
 

These questions are for anyone, there will be some which are more for Doms and some which are more for submissives, feel free to answer any which are relevant.

Sub questions:

What do you tend to get called the most when submitting?

What do you get called that most makes you squirm/embarasses you?

Good ____? (what feels the best as praise)

If it is different from above does your dom have any affectionate pet names?

What honorific for a dominant makes you the most horny/squirmy? Why?

Dom questions:

If you have a new sub/someone who wants to call you an honorific in a bdsm setting what do you like them to use?

Do you have any honorifics that people have called you which you dislike? Which ones and why?

If you own/have a long term sub what do you get called by them? What are they called by you

Do you have a go to general term for playing with male/female/sissies/diverse/nb subs? (obviously depending on the sub) which ones do you like to use?

Are there any names you had for subs which entertains you?

How about any honorifics which amused you?

This is actually not a thing i think a lot about in general, simply because i never gave the honorifics a too important status, but here we go

Dom questions:

If you have a new sub/someone who wants to call you an honorific in a bdsm setting what do you like them to use?
My answer to that is often that they can use what they want as long as i don't say otherwise. With maybe the exception of "Meister"/"Master" as i feel they require at least some knowing each other. But even there i have been flexible

Do you have any honorifics that people have called you which you dislike? Which ones and why?
Hmm only one that comes to mind would be "Papa", feels strange, even though "Daddy" is fine somehow

If you own/have a long term sub what do you get called by them? What are they called by you
The most common ones

Simply my real name
"Herr"
"Mein Herr"
"Meister"
"Sir"
"Master"
"Daddy"
...

her Name
"kleine"
"mein Slave"
"mein Spielzeug"
"little one"
"(my) toy/sextoy"
"(my) pet"
"(my) property"
"(my) slave"
"good girl"
and a lot personal ones

Do you have a go to general term for playing with male/female/sissies/diverse/nb subs? (obviously depending on the sub) which ones do you like to use?
Not really to be honest, i think i tend to use toy a lot but it is really more a matter of how our conversation flows and what i feel would have the most impact on feeling submissive for that person

Are there any names you had for subs which entertains you?
Hmm the one that comes to mind feels to personal the mention

How about any honorifics which amused you?
Teddy, Teddy Bear/Teddybär, sadistic Teddy Bear. No one ever used them as general thing but a few used variations of it in some instances

Sub questions:

What do you tend to get called the most when submitting?
Slut is the most common

What do you get called that most makes you squirm/embarasses you?
Piggy and cumslut
Good ____? (what feels the best as praise)
Girl or slut makes me equally as happy.

What honorific for a dominant makes you the most horny/squirmy? Why?
I used to hate using daddy but it’s grown on me lately. I think the embarrassment of having to call someone that is what gets me. Lol

What do you tend to get called the most when submitting? My toy

What do you get called that most makes you squirm/embarasses you? Naughty doll

Good Girl ? (what feels the best as praise)

If it is different from above does your dom have any affectionate pet names?

What honorific for a dominant makes you the most horny/squirmy? Why? Sir, it sounds so respectful and cold

Dom questions:

If you have a new sub/someone who wants to call you an honorific in a bdsm setting what do you like them to use?
I prefer to be addressed as Sir.

Do you have any honorifics that people have called you which you dislike? Which ones and why?
I dislike Daddy or anything similar—it is an instant turn off for me.

If you own/have a long term sub what do you get called by them? What are they called by you
I am called Sir. I have been addressed as a Dom using this honorific for more than 20 years and it just feels comfortable and right for me in my dominant role. Right now I have "(my) zero" who is also "(my) little one", and who also goes by many, many degrading names at my whim.

Do you have a go to general term for playing with male/female/sissies/diverse/nb subs? (obviously depending on the sub) which ones do you like to use?
I often use "(my) slut" or "(my) subby girl", but it depends on the sub.

Are there any names you had for subs which entertains you?
With pet play (not something I have engaged in often) I have found "my little puppy" and "my hot bitch" entertaining.

How about any honorifics which amused you?
"Dominus" is just so...

Azyliux

Sub questions:

What do you tend to get called the most when submitting?

It's usually a mix of humiliating words like whore, slut, stupid, dumb but also little girl :)

What do you get called that most makes you squirm/embarasses you?

The one that I love the most is "my little whore" ❤️

Good ____? (what feels the best as praise)

"Good girl" of course!!!

If it is different from above does your dom have any affectionate pet names?

Sometimes he calls me dumdum and I loveee it!

What honorific for a dominant makes you the most horny/squirmy? Why?
"Sir" feels very natural to me and once I say it I feel super subby! I always call my Dom Sir, no matter if we are in a session or not.

Sub questions:

What do you tend to get called the most when submitting?
Sub boy or toy

What do you get called that most makes you squirm/embarasses you?
Good little girl

Good ____? (what feels the best as praise)
Sub boy

If it is different from above does your dom have any affectionate pet names?
Nah not really

What honorific for a dominant makes you the most horny/squirmy? Why?
Miss (insert name) or full mistress. Makes them have purpose and makes me ready to serve

Sub questions:

What do you tend to get called the most when submitting?
Slut, toy

What do you get called that most makes you squirm/embarasses you?
Slut, pet

Good boy/slut/pet? (what feels the best as praise)

If it is different from above does your dom have any affectionate pet names?
currently not owned, once had one who gave me a dog name

What honorific for a dominant makes you the most horny/squirmy? Why?
Sir. I really like adressing my dom with sir, it makes me feel inferior

Sub questions:

What do you tend to get called the most when submitting?
Slut, probably.
What do you get called that most makes you squirm/embarasses you?
Hm... depends on the context. Whore and slut are definitely embarassing, though usually they also just make me extremely horny.
Good ____? (what feels the best as praise)
Good girl. Also baby, darling, honey or my name.
If it is different from above does your dom have any affectionate pet names?
For me or for them? Either way, baby, darling and honey are pretty good (in English, anyways).
What honorific for a dominant makes you the most horny/squirmy? Why?
Sir / Ma'am or Master / Mistress. Idk, just sets me in the right mindset.