40/female/switch seeks 30+/male/sub in US
 

Oh boy…..Where to begin ��?

I am finding myself in search of a serious long-term submissive male for the first time in a while. My previous submissive had to step away and I am finding myself wanting another long-term sub.

A few important things I thought you should know.

1. I am looking for a submissive not a slave.
- What’s the difference you ask? There are many definitions out there, and I
recognize that many people have different opinions but the way I look at it
- a slave will submit to their Mistress, completely, and at all times, with
little to no negotiations or say in anything.
- A submissive makes the conscious decision each day to submit to their
Mistress. While they have rights and freedoms, a sub chooses to be
“owned”, and chooses to willingly follow their owners rules and guidelines.
A submissive also to some extent sets their own limits (often by expressing
dislikes, and limits).

2. Developing a connection
I believe that in order to develop a strong D/s bond, it is important to develop a friendship/friendly relationship with each other. This may include sharing things we like to do, or enjoy (outside of BDSM). If you are not looking or interested in this piece, please kindly move on.

3. Where should you be in your submissive journey?
This one is up for discussion. As I am still developing my Domme role, I am open to working with individuals at any stage in their submissive journey. If you are a newbie, welcome! If you are a more seasoned person, I ask that you will have patience as I continue to perfect and improve my techniques. I am hoping that thorough this journey together we will both be able to grow and expand our experiences.

4. What kind of time commitment will this require?
- As I mentioned above I am looking for something “Long-Term”. So if you
are only looking for a week or two, I am probably not your person.
- I recognize that we all lead busy lives, myself included.
- So as far as time commitment - I would ask that you would be available at
least daily to check-in with each other. Other major time commitments
will be discussed and negotiated as we begin talking.

5. What can you expect from me?
- You can expect me to be fair but strict with my rules.
- I will set daily/weekly rules for you, and will expect you to report on them,
and will hand out consequences as necessary.
- I will also hand out rewards as they are earned through tasks.
- I am a great listener, and am always willing to be there if you need to talk
through something important.

6. Communication Requirements!
I REQUIRE you to connect with me via a messaging program.
If this is not possible, please don’t waste your time.
Due to personal living situation, I do require the use of either google chat or snapchat (either one works).

* Unfortunately I am unable to use kik on my phone....so if this is your preferred method of communicating, it's not going to work.

7. One more bonus :)
I am hoping to find a submissive that will push me to be the best version of myself. A submissive that could engage in some friendly competition would be amazing.

So now that you read this far what do you think? Questions? Concerns? Are you excited? If you want to connect, to begin to get to know me send me a message.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Hello mistress, im interested in becoming your Long term slave, please give me a chance, I would be glad from hearing from you.
Contact:
Sc: r.guadalupe4u

Hello Mistress,

I would love to become your long term sub.

Snap is amanddie0614

Oooooh pick me!!!
 

Hello Mistress, my Snapchat is ry9399an

Dear Mistress I would love to be your slave