Limits listing
 

Hello, i am new here and like to get in action ;)

Before i open a new topic, or join some dares i like to post my limits in my postsign.

Only problem, i find it very hard to make such a limit list. Is there anything like a list to use for deciding what i will do, what is a maybe or what is a hard limit?

I've searched on the forum, but couldn't find anything like that.

There are lists on the internet that cover the majority of kinks and fetishes but these lists go way too in depth in my opinion, and doesn't cover many things that can be found on getDare. I think it's best to try a few dares for yourself to find out if you like it, dislike it or never want to do it again.

Some general limits that many people use are family & friends, social suicide, pictures & videos, skin modification (= needle, blood play, knife play, long-lasting marks, etc.), public, pee & scat, blackmail, illegal activities.

But you can put anything in your limits: anything that you refuse to do under any circumstances. Some people just don't like online exposure, eating cum, orgasm denial, anal, and more. You could take a look at the Dares forum section, read topics (= dares) and figure out if you would be willing to actually try do the dare. But keep an open mind because some dares are quite extreme and not meant for beginners, in which case you should imagine the kink/fetish used in its simplest form.

In addition to what RiskyFlame said, keep in mind that there is no shame in being dared to do something you haven't heard of before and saying "Sorry, I haven't heard of that before, but I'm adding it to my limits. Thanks for the dare though!". :) Just being on this site doesn't mean you have to do any dare directed at you and a few people simply declare anything not in their likes as a limit.

You may want to answer this questionnaire that I created:
http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=308789

It's in-depth and will take you about 30 minutes if you do it properly. But then you should have a nice idea of your limits and also your dislikes and likes.

In case you're scrolling down past this, lemme second it! I was actually just looking for it to recommend myself. ^^

Thanks, i did the question list on the url, and is was really nice :)

Do I get a reply now or something as PB? Because that was one of the last questions :)