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damned_virus 10-22-2007 08:20 AM

collars
 
My mistress recently gifted me with a collar, As this is a common way, in the BDSM world, to show ownership, I am curious as to who else has a collar? and what are peoples views on it???

dared to perfection 10-22-2007 09:38 AM

i would only wear a collar in an offline relationship with a mistress otherwise putting it on and taking it off freely on cam is just not the same symbolism of ownership.

batman420 10-22-2007 10:44 AM

I am currently working for my collar from my Mistress. It is very common in the BDSM to show ownership.

RecklessDemonic 11-04-2007 12:41 AM

A collar will show ownership over someone, it also shows a a feeling of love dare I say. When a Master/Mistress gives their slave a collar it means many of things, it is also like a contract. It means many things to many diffrent people. To me it means this:
1. Love between the Dom and sub
2. Trust
3. Comitment (spelled wrong)
4. Honor
5. Ownership
On the offline/online thing it all depends on how much your trust your slave to wear his/her collar. Like my little one if I told her to wear it 24/7 I know she would, but I have enough love and respect for her to know that she knows who she belongs to and that she shouldn't have to wear it all the time and lets her get along with her college life without too much hastle.

Traveler 11-14-2007 07:54 PM

Collars
 
Most is correct above. The BDFSM lifestyle uses collars and the true reasons for collars are as individual as the Owners. Some are the mark of ownership, others to show the world they are lesser. Some are the same as a wedding ring to certain couples.

Even the materials be it leather for common market or work slave. Metals as well show worth with in the slave system. Brass/Bronze, Copper, Steel, Silver or even gold could denote the worth of a slave or status. Cold iron as well primitive and simple but does something subconscious when looked at.

Gor culture is a example of a metal color of round stock and almost hidden closer are becoming more and more seen.

Be it bought at a pet store or made by hand it has a meaning when put on. But the frist question one should ask when seeing one is "fashion or lifestyle" that will put you at least in the correct area when asking about it. Gothic of to day abuse the collar turning it in to a jewelry fashion accessory. So ask before putting foot in mouth, and guessing or judging, perhaps you will learn and be more for it.

TheLittleStrawberry 11-15-2007 02:48 AM

In some way... The goths turning collars into fashion is quite convenient for those who want to keep their collars on in public, but not have people know about their life style...

"Just a fashion statement", eh?

Traveler 11-15-2007 05:46 AM

Fashion
 
Yes, Strawberry that is correct. And yet with the question of "fashion or lifestyle " it automatically defines which is which and allows one to know and understand, becoming educated of the person's thoughts and ideas. Instead of stereotyping and classifications. Yes, it is a way to conceal lifestyle at times. But so is the wrist shackle that looks like a bracelet, carrying in a purse vice wearing it. There are many ways to conceal. Even the ribbon choker or short chain necklaces. Take your pick and then watch as you go out look and see how many ways to conceal and then how many you find in service vice fashion it may be interesting.


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