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Newbie Master Would Like Some Help

Hey everyone new to this site and to bdsm. I've always been kinda curious about bdsm but haven't ever done anything with it. So I just got my first cam slave earlier today and I wanted to get some ideas on what I can have him do.

Honestly, if you are going to call yourself "Master" you shouldn't make threads like this.. Learn his likes/dislikes/limits as well as who he is as a person, and combine that with yourself, and come up with some stuff you would both enjoy. If you need somewhere to start there are a million threads on here with ideas. But you really should be thinking for yourself.

This section is for posting punishments, I'll move the to the S/M Lounge.
Please post in the correct section next time.

Moved.

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Originally Posted by Nature_Dreamer (Post 390026)

Ok, here's my thoughts on the matter. Firstly you should not require your slave to be online immediately- at least not naked. Take some time out to talk to him/her and know their limits and likes know what they want from you and make sure they know you want from then.
Communication is just as important as your tasks and so on, I have known relationships that are only 5-10% task based.

Build trust this will allow you to do more with you slave.

Start simple and look on the dare threads for ideas on tasks as dares can be used as tasks to a degree. use others as inspiration for yourself.