As long as I remember, I've had a thing about being powerless. It started with innocent comics, where (usually) the girl got tied up or abducted (Always girls; I could identify with them I guess).
Then, I started to tie up my Barbie dolls. I could draw pretty well from a young age and I drew my own comics. They all had the same theme; girls in precarious situations, often being humiliated. I really liked medieval scenes with the girl locked in the stocks, garbage thrown at her. I think I was about 10. I learned pretty quickly to hide these drawings. At that age I already knew I was a little different than most people. At around 12 I also knew that I liked girls too.

I still remember my first orgasm, it must also have been around 12. It was the first time I had tied myself up. Just my wrists and ankles with a shawl or something. I didn't even have to touch. It wasn't until a few years later that I knew what that lovely feeling really was...

I understand that, I enjoy being tied up too. Although my helplessness feeling would come more from being without clothes and the humiliation/risk that comes with that. Also the lack of control.

I think this is a very pertinent question; fetishes don't just come out of nowhere, there are psychological reasons for every fetish.

My nudity/embarrassment fetish arose from a specific incident, which was being strip searched. I walked out of that room a different person when it was over. The story, with all the details, is here: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=289169

Wow that's nuts, do you think you'd ever want to repeat that in private?

Well, as I say in the last paragraph of the story, I've indulged my fetish a bit over the years.

It is one hell of an exciting story, if you don't mind me saying.

My Daddy raped me when I was 12. He also gave me my first orgasm that day. I've had at least 1 orgasm EVERY day of my life since then. I'm a slut who's only real reason for being is cumming and making others cum.

Oh wow, I'm sorry to hear that

I don't mind you saying at all! ;)

So who is the person you have as your avatar?

So where did your fetish come from Andrew?

I honestly have no idea how I acquired my foot fetish. I just know it's something of the last 10 years or so and been growing stronger throughout that time.

I remember thinking when i was ten or so if i talked to dirty someone would use my mouth as their toilet. Since then ive done some self eating scat dares but chickened out when a guy offered to h3lp me with this fantasy. He only wanted someone to watch him take a shit. I offered to use my tongue to clean him up. Next time ill keep my mouth shut untill the time we are together.

Well one day I was working out, doing some ab work when I realized how easy it is to get my cock over my face. I'm not big or felxable enough to suck it but I was curious about what it feels like to get a facial, since I liked to watch alot of cumshot porn. So one day when I was especially horny I put my cock over my face and shot it all over. In the middle I even opened my mouth to get a taste. That lead me to look for cum eating dice dares (which I had seen a long time ago and thought "gross") and that led me to getdare, which opened up all the stuff I'm into now.

Would you be interested in general flexibility as well?

I had just lost my virginity and tried online dating. I met a man on their who I didn't know at the time was a dom. I had no clue what that meant at the time.Since I had just lost my virginity I was very curious about sex and wanted to try new things.

He would do things like choke me or tie me up and use toys and explain what he was doing and why he was doing it. Sometimes have others watch etc.Constantly pushing me to break boundaries that I had.

after that ended I carried those things with me into new relationships.