not that hard
 

its not that hard cmon

I am not even going to wast my breath. You're wrong. Period.

It is hard.... Someone once gave me a suggestion. Go on any dating site, but try to do it as a man. And pick up girls. Just to see what it's like for a guy.
It's hard.
They lead you on. Heck... even I tend to lead people on. But that's because I flirted, knowingly that I wasn't sure of what I wanted. So I was testing the waters of course. But I always made it a point to respond politely to all messages I was given. Even the "kneel bitch" ones.

Most girls don't know what they want, and they usually have like... 5 people at the same time chatting them up. Even if you're super cool, the girl might have trouble focusing on you.


I know what has worked on me though. Patience. But not slowness. If a person knows how to push me gently, my legs cave in at some point and i fall in his spell. I dunno if that's the way with everyone.

That's a nice experiment every woman should try once. I think men should also try to pose as women (somewhere else of course) to see what it looks like from the other side. More understanding between the sexes can only be good.

A few reasons go into finding a female slave, or sub, or whatever you wish to call it.

1) You're too picky. You probably want a thin girl, the hot girl you see at Starbucks, that girl you have a fantasy about. Fact is, normally, you won't find the supermodel here. You have to accept that a) You're going to have to settle for a normal person, and b) that you aren't that attractive yourself. Unless you somehow ARE extremely attractive and you possibly might be able to find an online sub.

2) You're probably looking in the wrong places. Honestly, I wouldn't say getDare is the best place to look for a sub. Half of the kids here (and I do mean kids) are little kids that want to pretend their a girl and will give dopamine pleasure rushes to their master by telling them they did something, when in fact, it gives them the rush to think that they too might've done that had they been a female. So, I would say don't look here, because you're a) not going to find a cam girl because a lot are probably guys, and b) this has turned into a gay fantasy forum for 13 year olds. Sorry, that's just the way things turned out.

3) Be yourself. Try using punctual grammar, be assertive, be nice, but also be a real master. You need to show that you aren't fucking around and that you mean business. If you want her to shove a dildo up her ass, tell her that, and don't say "would you please put a dildo in your bum-bum?" No, you need to let her know you mean it. "Shove that plug up your ass, slave."

Maybe that's a bit harsh. But you can't be a submissive master. I think you get my point.

Listen to chubbs. ^^

He pretty much hit the nail on the head.