31F/ Life Update and New Request
 

Hello to the community
 

Hi everyone,

I just wanted to share a further confirmation that we have taken Anita as our full time 24/7 sub/ slave and accepted her into the life. Both, Kevin and I have gone through her life journey through getdare, heard from Anita herself and felt that getdare has been big part of supporting her in this BDSM journey. Both of us are excited to include her in our family, take care of her and be fair to her. We are new to the online site here, both have been practicing BDSM for past 25+ years. So I would request you to please do share more as per her post.

Thanks,
Joanna and Kev

1. Please suggest rules Master Kev and Mistress Joanna should consider for the slave.
Are you likes and limits up to date?
Have they been approved by your new owners?

2. Please suggest outfits which slave should be allowed to own by Master Kev and Mistress Joanna
Are these outfits for your household service or public?
Everyday outfits or kink specific?

Hi Slave Anita,

About the links in your signature: one brings to this thread, the other one I can't access. So if anything of what I say is against any limit, please excuse me, I'm just going by memory :)


Let's start with some simple rules:
1. You should always be horny. Edge once every 30 minutes while your Master and Mistress are not home, so when they're back they find you horny and ready for them.
2. You should help the other 2 service people with their duties, following any directions they give you (in absence of your Master and Mistress).
3. If Master and Mistress are expected to be away for over 3 hours, put a plug up your ass for 1h, then rest 30 minutes, and repeat, until they're back. You need to train your ass.

As for some outfits, I'll suggest one of each:
1. Household https://www.kinkyangel.co.uk/collect...ness-set-15125
2. Public https://i.pinimg.com/564x/0f/d5/67/0...37c392dda6.jpg
3. Kink specific https://www.kinkyangel.co.uk/collect...otic-chain-set

Hope you like the rules and outfits :) And wish you all the best with your new Owners!

I'm glad Mistress likes those two. I went a bit for a bold choice for public (kept you more covered, but wanted to make sure you could be identified as slave). I'll see if I can find something more subtle next time.

I tried the links again. The second one works, the first keeps sending me to this thread.

For rules I would say that you should be denied frequently and have to earn an orgasm.

Also, maybe have to wear nipple pegs for a certain time 5 days a week.

You should have a workout schedule if you are able.

Maybe be tickled once or twice a week if you are ticklish.

Good luck!

Update
 

Hi everyone,

Thank you for sharing some rules and suggestions on what she needs to do or rules for daily basis. As we have been talking to Anita, understanding her previous rules, we don't think many of them would apply as she serves us as a slave. To give a general sense, you can see some of the examples below on what we will not allow/ or allow and this list may increase as we see more:

She has and will have a proper room of her own, with all the nice bed and mattress, makeup table, her own restroom, mirrors, etc. She needs to feel comfortable in the living space and safe

She will have proper set of clothes over the period of time catering to different times. For e.g., she will need lingerie, bikinis, general clothes when we go out for lunches, coffee or dinner, something for attending parties, events, and then something which will be specific for the BDSM session at home as well as when she joins us for the community meet

She will not have any restriction on bath schedule or water temperatures. These will be used as part of punishments but not really a daily schedule.

We have seen the desire to not allow lingerie at all to slaves or subs but you won't believe that these are great tool to include in play. Imagine asking her to remove her thong and hand it over to me in semi-public space or any similar task. It can be exhilarating and fun moment for everyone. So please, no rules like never allow her to wear panties and bras.

She will have to workout regularly to stay in shape and she will have to do house work, upskill herself based on which we will give her the monthly allowance to save or spend however she likes. We all can agree that she will have needs and desire outside of living 24/7 as a sub to us as well as the getdare community

These are just some examples, but hopefully I am able to drive the point home as you all suggest the rules for lovely Anita and any outfit suggestions.

Thank you,
Joanna and Kevin

Sounds good.

One more idea I have is for her to generally have a set wake up and bed time.

Perhaps she should have some restrictions on TV and computer time as well?

Early Updates in Rules
 

Perhaps another rule could be for you to message me every day and let me know how you are and how your training went. I won't be here every day, but would try to reply when I am. I am anxious to see how you grow in your new home.

For a public outfit, would something like this work?

https://m.shein.com/us/SHEIN-BAE-Hal...-15847650.html

Hi Semper,

Yes, something like this would be acceptable. Feel free to share any other suggestions too if you have.

Thanks,
Joanna

Update on Rules
 

Hi Sir,

Thank you for sharing these. Mistress has asked you have a buying link or suggestion for crotchless panty as well as the colors you shared, the 2nd collar specifically. Mistress said, there are already collars for outside but she would like to see the one you had shared.

Thanks,
Slave Anita

Chastity belt = steel =worn 24/7

You should be locked 24/7 in a steel chastity belt chosen by Master and Mistress who keep the keys. When you do housework ( and other times when so ordered) you wear it and nothing else.

Hi there! I love this thread, its a great read, so I want to contribute an idea:

Every week, you throw a dice. If it is a 4, 5 or 6 (you could also throw a coin...) you have to follow this rule for one full week:
Every time you sit on the toilette, you have to wear nipple clamps while doing so. Only remove the clamps when you get up from the toilette.

I included the element of chance (the dice), so it is not a permanent rule, and so it won't get boring, and you have some weeks with and without the rule.

Will you consider it? Then I would like to hear if you like it / struggle with it and how you feel about it after performing it some times.

Maybe she should just have you measured in readiness so that at any time it can be ordered and fitted.

Thats a good idea actually!

Then, I'd like you to wear nipple clamps, whenever you are going to instagram. (If you are there for more than 20 minutes, rotate the clamps by 90°. Otherwise the blood circulation will be cut off for too long, and also it adds a little more pain and maybe make you leave instagram ;) ).

I would not like to apply this rule to getdare. In the end it discourages you from using this site ;)

If she gets you one she'll not regret it. Once she's got you by the nads you're putty.

How about you remove her bedroom dcdr by the hinges so she's no privacy?

I think the slave me naked and when she does wear clothes it is up to the master and mistress to decide.