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Pardus 06-18-2023 04:53 PM

33/male/master seeks 30+/male/sub in any place
 
33/male/master seeks 30+/male/sub in any place

I'm a gay man from Europe and am looking for mature and masculine men of any sexual orientation to use online for my entertainment and satisfaction. I have a bit of experience as an online master, but my past personal life usually got in the way of experiencing something too serious or long-lasting in this area. Now, that the issues which got in the way have been solved, I am seeking something earnest, serious and longer lasting. Please be responsible and don't treat this as a one-off. Put some effort into it.

I love the male body and mind and even though I will be harsh and demanding, I will take care of you. My day to day personality is not an especially dominant one and the men I like to sexually dominate are not what people usually think of when they say "(sex) slave". And this is what actually makes things enticing to me, as sexually I love to dominate men who are naturally dominant, rough, confident (even those who border on the proud or arrogant side), mature and masculine. This kind of "role reversal" of sorts is very alluring to me. I also am what I will call "naturally sadistic". Now, it doesn't really matter if you don't think you fit my earlier description of the men I like to use, as there are quite a few types of men who strike my fancy as far as sexual domination goes. If you fit the requirements I will list below, don't let anything stop you from applying:

REQUIREMENTS:
- Respect the age limit. No under 30s. I actually like men over 40 the most, but anyone over 30 can try, as ocasionally some slightly younger men manage to catch my attention.
- Uncut (uncircumcised) penis. I know this is a bit specific, but I am not used sexually and visually with them being cut; in my area circumcision is unheard of and to me it takes away from the man-next-door feeling I like to have when using men online.
- No cheating on your partner - I am really not interested in participating in anything of the sort. You have to either be single or in a relationship in which your partner doesn't mind you sending sexual pictures and videos of yourself to another person.
- Average / reasonable physique. I don't mind it if you are a bit chubby or a bit on the slim side, but nothing too much please. Toned or muscled bodies work for me as well, of course.
- Be natural and honest. Honest communication is crucial. Also, I want you to be natural physically and sexually. I don't want you to shave your body, I don't want you to use poppers, nor cock rings, nor erection enhancing drugs. I don't mind it if you cannot have a full erection, as long as you can have a semi or partial one. Also, I am not into roleplay of any kind.
- You need to pass my preliminary task in which I will require 3 pictures of yourself (beside asking you a few questions). As I said, the types of men I like using are a bit specific - it's not about good or bad looks in the stereotypical sense, it's about you fitting the type of man I'm interested in. For example, there are quite a few male actors or celebrities who are considered attractive by many (or most) people, but they simply don't do much (if anything) for me sexually or emotionally. If you pass my preliminary task (=if you seem to be the type of man I would enjoy using) I will answer you in maximum 3 days; if you don't pass it, I will not answer you at all during these 3 days.

HOW WILL I USE YOU?

I will give you picture and video tasks - one or a few per task. You'll have to be able to take them without holding the phone / camera with your hand (of course) and I do need reasonable image quality. You don't need to own any sex toys. I will almost constantly cause you humiliation, frustration and pain through the tasks I will ask you to do. My fetishes are very diverse, so there's really no point in naming them all here - and, besides, I like taking men by surprise. I don't want nor need to know your limits, either, as this is about my will and pleasure, not about yours - make sure you keep this in mind at all times. Your only desire regarding this whole (or)deal must be that of offering yourself to me for my pleasure. I will tell you what my limits are and you can expect to be asked to do anything not within these limits. So, read carefully:
LIMITS (things I will NOT make you do): heavy or permanent damage, scat and other messy or dirty things (except WS, lightly and occasionally), feminization, crossdressing, fully public, online exposure, financial domination, kids, animals, involving other people, diapers, immoral acts.
! IMPORTANT NOTE: You are absolutely not allowed to refuse doing any of the tasks I give to you just because you don't like it or because you don't want to do it. Unless you have a very serious reason for your refusal that I hadn't been aware of, your refusal to do any of my tasks will end our interaction. You can expect to be asked to do ANYTHING not in the limits above, so be fully prepared. Show me your discipline, perseverance and strength of character!

OTHER IMPORTANT NOTES:
- I will absolutely NOT share any info, picture or video you share with me. I am not into any of the exposing fetishes. Exposing your whole body and mind to me will be more than enough, and certainly demanding and difficult enough for you. If necessary, we can discuss a bit beforehand and I can answer some of your questions. Just how I don't want to participate in any cheating, I don't intend to risk anyone's reputation or betray their trust, be they "online" people or not. I can send you a few SFW pictures of me if you ask for them.
- Keeping contact: communication will be exclusively through e-mail and at least once per week. Which means that you have maximum 7 days to complete a task and I have maximum 7 days to respond to it. If more than a week has passed and there is no response / reaction from one of us, we can assume something has happened and we have the right to demand explanations. Of course, 7 days is a bit much, I will usually respond earlier than that (probably during the same day most of the times) and I prefer you to do the tasks earlier than in a week's time. Nevertheless, 7 days is the time limit. If any of us wants to stop the interaction (temporarily or definitively) we have to explicitly tell this to the other. No ghosting.
- As you will do everything only for my own satisfaction, I will have, in exchange, your best interests in mind at all times. Some tasks may be a bit risky, but I focus mostly on tasks and fetishes which are both rewarding for me and risk-free for you. I genuinely love all people, especially men (as you may have guessed). I am demanding, strict and sadistic, but I am not unreasonable, nor evil. I will strive to discover your depths as a man and, if possible, give you aid in what regards some aspects of your life. You better show me that you are committed and are trying your best to do EXACTLY what I ask you to do, for my pleasure, amusement and entertainment.
- I am not looking to meet up or relocate. I want to keep this an online interaction.

!!! HOW TO APPLY:
Leave a comment on this thread mentioning your age, sexual orientation and anything else you think I need to know about you. If you spark my interest, I will send you a PM with the instructions for the preliminary task. If you, for some reason, don't want to post on this thread, then you may send me a PM with the required info. But the public comments on this thread have the maximum priority. Beginners, people curious about submitting, doms, masters or men with a dominant and/or aggressive personality are more than welcome to apply. But others are welcome, too. I will take it easy with everyone at the beginning, and while we get accustomed to each other, the tasks will gradually become more difficult. However, I expect everyone applying to be strong-willed, honest, courageous, disciplined and serious. Show me you truly are a man of your word and that you are up to any challenge thrown at you. Prove to me that you are an able man (with "a heart to resolve, a head to contrive, and a hand to execute", as the saying goes) of strong character! Do you have what it takes to rise to my challenges? Show me that you do.

selfbondage 06-18-2023 09:26 PM

What a great post there, sounds really intense what you want. I am too limited
what i like but good luck to find what you're looking for ;)

Pardus 06-19-2023 12:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by selfbondage (Post 5133478)
What a great post there, sounds really intense what you want. I am too limited
what i like but good luck to find what you're looking for ;)

Thanks for your comment. If one reads my ad carefully, it is quite evident that I don't want 24/24 life control, nor do I want to interfere too much with a sub's day to day life. From my experience, that can often prove to be exhausting for one or both of us. I give my sub picture and video tasks and, if needed, he may take as long as 7 days to do one task. The "intensity" of what I want comes mainly from the facts that I expect real commitment once the sub accepts my conditions, that I will explore him thoroughly physically, sexually and psychologically and from the fact that I won't make it easy for him - by the contrary. If one has what it takes to do my tasks, his submission to me won't take much of his daily time. Just wanted to highlight this, so that people won't feel intimidated by a false issue.

I also wanted to add that I don't chat in other places than here before giving anyone the preliminary task (I don't use skype, kik or telegram for this kind of thing) so don't leave your kik here and expect me to further contact you there (has happened to me). Also, don't contact me if you are under 30 (has also happened!) Thanks.

Splinto 06-19-2023 10:08 AM

Great post, and very exciting to read! 35M here in North America. Complete beginner but have always fantasized about the idea of submitting to a more powerful man. I generally consider myself straight, but I feel I could thrive as a submissive under the guidance of a strong male dominant. I am a bit on the chubby/dad bod side, but I believe I fit your requirements.

Pete360360 06-19-2023 06:16 PM

Hi, I'm male 34 straight (bi-curious) from the UK and would like to apply. I like the idea of being given tasks with some time to complete them rather than live sessions so this could work perfectly.

Dz094 06-19-2023 06:18 PM

IDK If you are interested in an M22 but if so message me at dha094 on kik

HonululuParis 06-20-2023 06:37 AM

Hello there

I guess you can check for my posts to pre screen me. I am male, 36, GMT+2.

You seem to be a good fit for somebody like me. Let’s see if you PM me :)

Nardus 06-20-2023 07:23 AM

You seem perfect and awesome
 
I really like Your post. I am 61, gay, from Stockholm, Sweden. A little chubby, hairy and otherwise a normal masculine guy with some experience as a online sub/slave. I only wish I was single, because then I would seriously apply to be your sub/slave, and do every task very seriously and with full commitment. Good luck, you deserve to get some really devote subs to use for your pleasure.

steve101 06-20-2023 10:46 AM

I am a 38 year old straight male from England. I find timing live sessions with Doms difficult so being given tasks to complete within a week seems ideal.

Curiousguy823 06-22-2023 04:29 PM

I’m 30 m gay from the US I’m 5’8 175 cut 3.5” penis. My kik is curiousguy823

boislave2serve 06-22-2023 05:55 PM

I wish I was able to cam right now, as this sound like the hard use I need.

esmond 06-24-2023 07:44 PM

Straight man. Slim body. 39 years old. Not very masculine perhaps. The tasks sounds like something for me. Kik:pinkjojje

HiJayJay 06-30-2023 06:27 AM

Sounds interesting! I’m Ollie, a 32yo straight male from the uk. Hope to chat soon!

billthebigshot 07-14-2023 07:38 PM

Hi I’m 30, gay and from the U.K. and very interested in being given tasks and submitting to you.

tazzisabadboy 07-14-2023 08:28 PM

Sounds great
 
I'm a male 47 years old I live in NY this sounds awesome to me and something I think we both can get along to and develop a Master Slave relationship.

sub_Tom 07-15-2023 02:00 AM

Hello Sir,
i like ur Post and ur idea of fulfill ur tasks.
Im a bisexual 45yo single sub m, into getting commanded, some kind of degraded, chastity, crossdress, nudity, maybe u can give me a chance

Pardus 07-24-2023 04:06 AM

My ad is still open. Make sure to be prepared to do anything not in the limits I listed, even for the preliminary task. And please carefully read my ad, in general. All the best to you all. Cheers.

imaslaveboy 07-24-2023 05:33 AM

30, male, gay. Have a look at my signature and see what you think

Chrisbest 07-25-2023 12:00 AM

willing to serve you
 
Male, 42, straight guy from UK. In to punishment, humiliation, especially spanking. Very obedient and willing to have boundaries pushed. Providing video/photo evidence is ok with me. Have kik/Skype/discord.

PeterH 07-25-2023 02:25 AM

Sub from UK
 
Hi Master, 45 male straight uncut sub from London UK, very interested in your post. Please let me know how I can serve you. Thanks, Pete.

svbg3 08-01-2023 09:42 AM

Hello, Sir. I'm very interested in your ad. Please provide instructions for the preliminary test. Thank you, Sir! :)

galvanisedone 08-11-2023 07:31 AM

Hello Sir. 42 M - dominant and alpha in my professional life, but constantly need strict control and domination and to serve real men. I hope I can serve and impress you.

LongAndStraight 08-19-2023 04:12 AM

38 straight/bi-curious switch male, tall (6'4) and slim/average looking.
Not submissive in my day to day life, but have a secret fantasy for obeying someone dominant.
Had some on/off plays, but nothing too serious.

Pardus 09-09-2023 08:02 AM

I am still looking for men. Feel free to apply if you think you fit what I'm looking for. All the best to all.

the_zen_moment 09-21-2023 03:17 AM

I am interested
 
Hi,
I am male, 40, bi-curious.

Sole Destroyer07 09-21-2023 12:42 PM

Hi

I’m male, straight and from the UK, aged 35. Interested to see what you have in mind for the tasks

Wdgieman 09-25-2023 07:03 AM

Hello. I’m 30, kinda dominant guy in my daily life, still I often fantasize about being made to do stuff by someone while no one else know I may be the kind of guy taking orders. I loved everything you wrote in your add, I’m perfectly fine with chatting via mail and very interested in where this could lead. Please contact me if you may be interested and let’s chat more.

hood.0272 09-29-2023 10:10 PM

Hello Sir.
An intriguing proposition.
51/m/Ireland bi, but...
Some experience with D/s. In an open, vanilla relationship with a wonderfully understanding Man.
Even His friends think I'm in charge. Or did until i was at a party with his friends and skinny dipping became a thing.

Pardus 10-09-2023 04:16 PM

This is still open!

rst1988 10-09-2023 05:01 PM

Hello! I saw your post and definitely interested.

35 WM and 5’8 and 225 lb. I am a bi-curious male from the Midwest. Have never served before and interested.

atljoe 10-09-2023 06:57 PM

30 males US, 6'4, 270, bearded. Interested, if you are as well please dm.

Pardus 11-09-2023 06:32 AM

Bump! Looking again for serious applicants!

vanquisher90 11-10-2023 11:30 AM

Dear Sir,
I think your ad is very interesting and well written. Unfortunately, I'm a beginner. Nevertheless, I would like to apply.
I'm a 33 year old straight / bi-curious male from central Europe.
Looking forward to hearing from you.

datan 11-11-2023 01:18 AM

I really love this post. I’m a 45 year old male from Belgium. I’m heterosexual but the idea of a man controlling me is a huge turn on. I’m divorced and within a new relationship. She understands my desire to be controlled but she can’t provide so she gave me the opportunity to find this online. Her only request she will make the pictures or videos. However she never will be in one.
Maybe if you want we can talk more in details

Kik datansub01
Mail. [email protected]

Pardus 12-08-2023 06:09 PM

Hello. I am looking again and I want to add that communication will may move to Skype after you do the preliminary task. Also, tasks might include live Skype play in which you will obey my written instructions, beside picture and videos. Everything else in the ad still applies.

Haze77 12-19-2023 06:35 AM

Hello Sir,
I would like to apply as you sub. I am 31, bi-curious, 190cm tall, average build.
I like Edging, Orgasm Control, Anal, Bondage, CBT Pain, Outdoor, Hidden Public, Humiliation
Maybe: Big Anal Insertion, High Risk of being caught
Limits: Family and Friends, Messy, Permanent (body shaving), Extreme Pain

I am not available daily, but usually a couple of evenings every week.
I have a lot of toys, dildos, a chastity device, locks,...

Josefm 12-20-2023 12:25 PM

Hi. I'm a 33 years old straight man currently studying in Germany. I've found your ad interesting and can't wait to pass your preliminary test!

_.slaveee69 12-23-2023 02:33 PM

I want to used like a slave and serve you, my kik is : .RaNdOmX.

Pardus 02-05-2024 04:35 AM

Hi everyone, I am looking again. Some of my subs dropped out because of health / other personal reasons. Right now I only have one sub, so I can take more. Hope to find someone fitting my description in the ad.

Dare and challenge yourself. :cool:

Sub to obey 02-05-2024 06:03 AM

Hi Sir ,sub here m53 uk


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