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Searching for Littles / Caregivers
This is not a hook-up thread, nor am I looking for one.
I have found a few little's here, but I wanted to know if any others are out there. Comment if you are either a little, caregiver, or both! Let's all be friends and talk! This has nothing to do with real children! No pedophiles. Consenting adults only! |
I am a little girl!
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I like being a little. :)
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I would come under caregiver here :).
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Do you all have caregivers/littles? Where did you find them?
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I also have a mentor Daddy. He is helping me become more of a real life little, and teaching/showing me how to do stuff in a safe way. I also met him on fetlife! |
Aww I'm so happy for you! Maybe I should check it out?
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:rolleyes: There always is! I'll give it a whirl.
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Yeah do that! There are quite a few little groups there as well!
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I would like to be a little
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Hi hi Mini. This is an awesome idea! Why didnt we do this earlier?!
I am most definitely little. And fromo is my Daddy. ^_^ I met him here almost 2 years ago. (Valentine's Day is our anniversary.) There's been so many times that I felt as if I didnt belong here because of the lack of the Caregiver/little community. |
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So yeah, this might be a stupid question
But what are littles/caregivers excactly? Ive never heard of it before |
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A caregiver would be the person who takes care of them, their 'daddy' or 'mommy' for instance. I've probably done another poor job of explaining, but hopefully that'll give you an idea. |
Ah thanks for explaining, I think I get it now.
One question left, is it age play or does it go beyong that? Do littles actually feel like they are 5year old for example? The way some men feel like they are woman trapped in a mans body I mean. Or is it more like a travistite who just likes to dress up and act every now and than? |
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Fromo did a good job of defining it. There is no absolute definition of it, just like there is no absolute definition of Masters and slaves. Littles are people who just feel younger than who they are, usually in the span of newborn to 17. Caregivers are the people who take care of them. It is very very rarely actually family, but some of their titles include Mommy, Daddy, Uncle, Aunt, Sir, Ma'am, etc. |
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I'm definitely a caregiver and I have a wonderful little girl! Meet her in a chat room almost 6 years ago we live together.
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I'm not sure I would consider myself to be a little yet but I'm certainly interested in the idea...
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I'd love to try being a little, although I never have. If any CGs wouldn't mind taking me under their wing, that is. :)
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Careful with your wording. This is not, nor ever will be a hook-up thread. If you have any questions about being a little, feel free to ask here those of us with experience can assist you. |
I am a bit of both but prefer the little side.
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I'm sorry about that, marshmallow. I'll be more careful from here on out.
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I'm definitely a little!
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It is great seeing so many littles (and a few caregivers too!)!!
So I have a question for the group. How did you discover your little/caregiver side? |
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I have a little side. I don't really explore DD/lg anymore, therefore I keep my little locked up. But as I've mentioned a few times here and there, she does get out at times.
I got into it via an ex-dom who was the first person I ever explored it with. It just sorta happened naturally. |
I have always wondered how relationships work when you're in the DD/lg type of BDSM. I assume that the two of you have times in the relationship when you're both "adults", like with having sex, or is this not the case? Do you stay in the roles while having sex (like calling him Daddy and him saying little girl) or do you have to go more adult like? I've sort of always assumed the DD/lg side to be more of a 24/7 type of BDSM because I imagined it would be hard for each role to switch on and off, especially for the DD to picture his little as anything other than a little.
These are probably stupid questions and I apologize if I've caused some facepalming to occur after reading. |
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For me I have 3 headspaces. Little, which is my clueless baby side. Middle, which is my most sexual/kinky side. Lastly, big, my adult, college going, this has to be done right now side. For each headspace sex could potentially happen or I could jump around during. I think that is the biggest taboo about it. As long as no real children are involved! I find that the roles do stay the same usually. Some littles are non sexual, too. Personally I can move through headspaces quite a bit. I can walk through a store talking to someone, see a color book, jump into little space, then go back to big really quick. Caregivers have magic powers. They can usually sense what headspace their little is in at the time. (from what I hear), they can see the little one as that headspace. Usually the little will be submissive, so even in big space they are under their Dom's wing. There are some relationships where the caregiver and little switch. CG/l is just like a D/s relationship. There are many ways things could be flipped and switched, every relationship is personal. |
I like being a little too ^_^
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Are there usually triggers that send you into a certain headspace or can you just choose one willy-nilly?
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On the other hand, sometimes it is just willy-nilly. Just like regular emotions can come and go, headspaces can as well. |
Thank you, this has been really helpful :)
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I would like to say im a little as well an have done a bit of caregiving myself however, i prefer to be little but i can switch if need be.
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If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask. |
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