I think there's someone on here who's username is Google and this is not about them. Also if anyone here works at Google, I don't hate you unless you're a jerk. I'm also not saying I hate people who use Google(personally I'm still mostly a Yahoo user), nor am I saying I hate the company personally. Unfortunately though Google has posed me with some..."interesting" proposals to my D/s life.

Several years ago, I posted an ad looking for a slave and foolishly put my e-mail...

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I have been pretty open for the last 18 months or so about my struggles and recovery with anorexia and bulimia after years of hiding it from everyone who was even a little bit close to me.

The majority of the last 18 months have been very good in terms of recovery and sensible eating (except for enjoying junk food too much after years of denying myself any.) Of course there have been a few slips such as a few days of not eating or a binge and then throwing up or constant hours of exercise-...

There are two people in my life that I love in an incomparable way,
My sister and my girlfriend.
I’m thankful for both of them every single day.

My sister has been with me through every endeavor and hardship I’ve faced. The highs, the lows, the downs, the ups, the weakest and the darkest, and the happiest moments of my life. The relationship I share with her is one of the things that I value most in my life. She has helped me through experiences and her love and support have...

Thanks to this post about the difference between a submissive and a slave I've decided to get something off my mind by writing it down. Sine I joined getDare over half a year ago I have seen plenty of requests from potential slaves compared to very few from potential Masters and Mistresses. Partly it's the lack of effort that I cannot stand, I have written about that, but even more, I oppose the myth or thinking pattern which stands behind such attitude:

I want to be your slave, so you...

Note-this is solely my opinion.

I always identified as a submissive. I hated the word slave and was sure that would never be me. I originally viewed a slave who was someone who had no input, no limits and was forbidden from stating their thoughts feelings or concerns.

I am a brat. I have an opinion on everything. If I feel something is unsafe, beyond my capabilities or just stupid then you are going to know about it right away. So I couldn't be a slave...could I?
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