Reality vs Fantasy

I’ve been on this site for several years now and a moderator for nearly half that, so I think I’ll allow myself just one tiny little ranting blog.

I will never get how people complain about “fakes” and want photo proof of tasks, but consider things like “I will fuck 10 strangers off the street bareback if this gets 15 comments” a realistic encounter. I think you should take that as a warning sign. If you think about it, how many people can you think of in your real life that would consider doing even a quarter of that on their most daring of days? Even most porn stars wouldn’t do so without going through extensive precautions to prevent STD’s and pregnancies and knowing who their costars are/where they’ve been. [Not to mention they get paid and are not just doing this to spice up a boring Saturday night.] If you blindly believe that wildly outrageous tasks like that are being completed, you shouldn’t be surprised when you find out the person you’ve been talking to isn’t who they say they are, or isn't doing what they said they’ve been doing.

Maybe stop calling people “time wasters” for not entertaining your unrealistic dares, when in fact you’re wasting OUR time by sending outlandish task ideas. Before sending a task think about if it’s physically feasible. Maybe even try the idea out on yourself! Could you stay on all fours and cane yourself with vigor? Or do you find that it’s difficult to get out more than a weak flick of the wrist? Could you film yourself masturbating while sat on a crowded, public train? Or do you think that you’ll be arrested and charged with public indecency? If you find that’s the case, adjust accordingly by trial and error. Also, please take into account the female anatomy. Not every woman can cum just from flicking her nipples or from shoving an eggplant into her asshole. Realize that what worked for one woman will not work for all women. Tweak your tasks to fit your recipient. We all have different likes. dislikes, and limits. We don’t have all of the same physical capabilities, kinks, or risk thresholds. Just because Sally streaked naked down her street at 1 in the afternoon doesn’t mean Cindy can despite the fact that they're both exhibitionists. I get that since you may be in a dominant role, you’ve never actually tried out some of these positions and tasks so you didn’t realize the outcome would differ so much as to what you envisioned. Or maybe you’ve read a lot of fantasy based reports that are disguised as real ones. Either way, maybe think through the entire task. Act as if you’re the one doing it, and see if that makes you want to change any of it. You can even treat it as a test! If you’re doubting that someone’s telling the truth about doing one of your tasks, give one you’ve physically tested yourself that wasn’t possible. If the person in question breezes through it with ease, try focusing your attention on a different thread/blog/user.

Another great tip! Just because someone has a photo of a woman on their profile or in their album, does not mean they ARE that woman. It’s very easy to steal someones pictures and pretend to be them. Notice inconsistencies. Do they always mention taking photos in their bedroom only, but the surroundings constantly change? Does their phone or camera look like it’s from 2007 but the photo is being posted as if it were recently taken? Does their description match what their photos show? Are their album photos actually of ten different women, but you were too horny to take notice the first time around? Try doing a reverse image search. Ask your friends about them. Vet them before you send them your naked photos and personal details for them to “consensually” blackmail you with.

Be wary of people who claim to be women but just so “happen” to be using their brothers kik account that day, because they got locked out of their own. Be cautious of people who claim to be mother daughter duo’s or from a group home of 40 desperately horny 18 year olds who are all sharing one account. I’m not saying these things could NEVER happen, but maybe use a little discretion since these once in a lifetime circumstances seem to happen very often on this site. You can use the search function to look up their kik or email address if they’ve posted it publicly. You might even find that [email protected] has posted 10 ads prior on another account where the title was “male dom seeking female slave”. You could also google these and see if money miss ads pop up in the results. Do a little research before you point fingers and refuse to take any of the blame.

Then again, you might enjoy the many fantasy posts that are floating around the site. I get it, they’re exciting, and hot, and might be just what you needed to read for a quick cum and run. If that’s the case pay no mind to the above, but just please stop commenting on peoples ads that they’re fakes if you’re willing to turn a blind eye elsewhere on the site. [It also doesn’t help to shine so much attention on them by publicly outing them vs reporting them. You’re just bumping their ad to the top of the page and leaving everyone else who worked hard on their ads to sink to the bottom so you can release some frustration on a stranger.] And, it doesn’t make you look very nice when your whole post history consists of you attacking/shaming people.

Now that the ranting is out of the way, please focus on the threads and posts that deserve your attention! Whether they're male OR female. Set a standard for what you want to see on the site. Comment on the good advertisements to hide the bad ones. Comment on someones interesting blog post even if you don’t know them personally. If you want excellent reports and photos, write some creative tasks! Read peoples profiles and likes/dislikes/limits and strive for something unique that would work for them. Don’t settle for one line responses to your well thought out tasks. Check out some post histories to see if they’re the type to ask for requests and then vanish - save your quality posts for someone who will match your enthusiasm. But don’t forget to give newbies a chance! Everyones gotta start out somewhere.