Awhile ago I posted a blog about using safewords in online relationships. You can read that blog here if you wish.

As much as I acknowledge that safewords are important, I know that safewording can sometimes have a stigma attached to it. I know a lot of subs that will feel like a failure or as though they are disappointing their top by using their safeword. I think that this can be a very dangerous view point, but I won't get into that right now. What I want to write about today is the...

• Double up
  start day lock, Next unlock is 2 days, 4 days, 8 days, 16 days, double up
  
  
• Add one week,
  start week lock, Next unlock is 2 weeks, 3 weeks,
  
  
• Just unlock once a week
  
  
• Just unlock once a month
  
  
• Only unlock 12 times in my lifetime
  
  
• Stores one stroke per day
  You can unlock at any time.
  For example, after 20 days, 20 strokes and cum
  If you fail cum, You have to lock it right

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sorry about not getting to this blog post yesterday. saint patricks day had me messed up all day.

so, the day started out fine, excpet that my roomamte walked in on me while i was changing, in just my panties cage and bra. it was really embarassing for me, since this guy (he was new to the group) was unaware that i was a guy.

he freaked out and shut the door to my room of the hotel while shouting "i didnt see anything!" so i guess no harm, done, but we didnt talk...

For the majority of the time I have been involved in kink, degradation has been a hard limit for me. I was okay with humiliation, but there was a very fine line between the two and it had to be approached carefully in order not to cross into degradation.

But then I asked AM his opinion of how the two of them differ and after he explained his thoughts on them to me I started to become quite curious about degradation.

I was so nervous about it going very wrong the first time...

I am working through some of the items on my kinky bucket list. Mr. Devious and I asked for your help to decide what to do next, and you chose that you wanted me to be teased and denied actively for 5 hours!!

I want to preface this to say that this report may not be as detailed as my reports are normally. This is due to a few things: a) It was A LONG DAY! My brain was foggy from being teased and we did A LOT of things to get me sufficiently teased. I also completed at least 150 edges throughout...