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What do I look like?

Posted 02-27-2018 at 12:44 PM by Pet Ra

I'm 1,52m tall, weight 45kg and have dark brown hair wich fall in slight waves down to my hips.
My almond eyes are so dark brown that they almost seem black, and I have a minimal stub nose. My mouth is a bit to wide and alwas seem to smile (even when I'm grumpy), but all together it makes me look cute - well, that's what most people say.
I have small shoulders and a flat stomach, you can see that I keep myself fit. My hips are a slighly wider than my shoulders, my legs are 71cm long (I...
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My Process For Creating A Task

Posted 02-27-2018 at 12:42 PM by sciencegal
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A big part of getdare involves tasks/dares. But all too often there are numerous tasks that are just unrealistic or unreasonable. I believe that these tasks are created to try to be fun and challenging, yet for one reason or another, they are taken too far. They end up being unsafe, unachievable, or just plain unrealistic. What then makes for a good task?

To try to answer this, I will walk you through how I came up with a Pet Play task recently. I originally created this dare about a...
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Dare give by ltakltak

Posted 02-27-2018 at 12:31 PM by Pet Ra

Conditions for this dare:
- hold an enema for 30 minutes
- make myself a breast harness afterwards (because of my tiny tits it was altered to taping them)
- put 6 pens in my ass and write down "I am the pathetic slut of my master and mistress"
- edge between each writing by humping a piece of furniture

Master gave me my enema (because I had to hold it for such a long time he only gave me one filling = 500ml) and plugged my ass to prevent a messy...
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Existential dread and BDSM

Posted 02-26-2018 at 12:43 PM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)
Updated 02-26-2018 at 03:09 PM by lilith_

Lately it's been "one of those days". "One of those days" means that I don't feel anything, I'm watching netflix and youtube all day, I eat until my belly wants to explode and I don't want to talk or even communicate with anyone. Then the emptiness is interrupted by a sudden punch of existential dread and panic, only to be followed by emptiness again. I can't follow my rules and neither do I want to.

All this is creating huge amounts of guilt because the last thing
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Posted 02-26-2018 at 10:55 AM by sciencegal

Iím often curious what motivates us to do what we do. For example, what motivates someone to message a random stranger of the desired sex and attempt to solicit pictures/videos? Iíve often wondered why people (mostly guys, sorry) will randomly message girls attempting to chat with the ultimate goal of getting pictures for a masturbation session. This approach is not about building a friendship; itís not about getting to know another person. Itís solely about an ends to a means. The messager wants pictures...
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BDSM bucket list

Posted 02-25-2018 at 01:21 PM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)
Updated 03-20-2018 at 04:41 AM by lilith_

  • Predicament Bondage
  • Leashed
  • Tied to a chair
  • Tied to a bed
  • Shibari
  • Ring gag
  • Tape gag
  • Chains
  • Sensory Deprivation
  • Excessive body writing
  • Watersports
  • Tickling
  • Wax play
  • Clothes cut off
  • Knife play
  • Blood play
  • Flogging
  • Cane
  • Consensual Non Consent
  • Anal gaping
  • Fisting
  • Squirting
  • MMF threesome
  • Bladder control
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Get to know a Middle. You've never heard it? Pssshhh

Posted 02-25-2018 at 07:49 AM by lilith_ (Ramblings of a Nymphet)
Updated 02-25-2018 at 08:50 AM by lilith_

The truth is that it took me quite a while to figure out what my role is and what makes me feel the most comfortable. I've gone from being a Domme with no submissive tendencies to a full on bratty little shit who deep down is ridiculously submissive.

I've searched all the BDSM blogs, I've read a huge ammount of articles and I've talked to so many people. I've read about all the submissive and dominant roles but nothing seemed to be fitting my personality and sexual needs. I knew I wasn't
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