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I love to hear my sub beg. Nothing makes me feel more in control, than hearing the desperation in their voice (or see it in their typed words). However, I know that a lot of people struggle with begging, and so I wanted to give a bit of an outline for what I am looking for when I ask...

I was going to post a comment to Icy's blog, but what I have to say will probably be so long as to warrant one of its own. (Also, her blogs are already rated much higher than mine anyway.)

There are many responsibilities inherent in Dominance. The most important is a duty of care. If you wish to take control of an aspect of another person's life, you become responsible for their wellbeing while you excercise said control. The more control you have, the more you are responsible. This...

So, decided I would post an updated toys list... it is starting to become... more extensive

Small Butt Plug
Medium Butt Plug
metal plug
small vibrating plug (grrr broken)
large vibrating plug (grr broken)
Prostrate massager/cock ring
breathable ball gag
ball gag
spider gag
flogger
paddle
Chastity cage (plastic)
Chastity cage (metal)
Chastity cage (metal with urethra sounder)
rope
under...

Darkness

As the darkness fall upon you, what do you see.
As the darkness fall upon you, what do you feel.
As the darkness fall upon you, what do you hear.
As the darkness fall upon you, what direction will you take.
As the darkness fall upon you, what are you thinking.
As the darkness fall upon you, will that evilness over take you.
As the darkness fall upon you, will you be swollen up.

I'm a huge brat. I like to irritate AM, to bug him, to drive him insane. Just today I responded with a "Mr Butthead." instead of "Sir." In the middle of a quick play scene. Even though when I did so I was fairly sure the pain on my nipples would become even worse than it already was. I hate nipple pain, but that didn't stop me. And it did get worse, but I still giggled.

So when AM suddenly told me something along the lines of he knows what I can and can not do, what...