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Pikachu
10-13-2007, 05:45 AM
an alternating subbmissive/master relationship
eg: one day one person is the Misstres/Master and the next day they are the submissive

any females interested?

does anyone think this is an good idea?

i think it would be good because if someone was overly strict on one person then the other person could get them back the next day

i know its different and not in the original conteext of the slave Master relationship but i just wanted to put it out there

Collared_Slave
10-13-2007, 05:52 AM
i think it is a good idea- it stops over cruel masters because they get their comupance

WelshGuy
10-13-2007, 05:59 AM
this is very common its called a switch relationship.

Looking4somename
10-13-2007, 07:44 AM
I actually don't think it's such a good idea.
One of the most important things about a D/s relationship is respect. A slave should respect his/her master. Also, a slave needs to know that he should and will do anything his/her master tells him/her to do. A slave should know that there is some sort of space between him/her and the master, and the master should always be able to show the slave who's in charge.

Now, if your master will become your slave tommorow, you basicly have none, or almost none of the above.

I believe that a switch relationship is just some kind of a fun thing to do when u are bored, at best. It's basicly like a TorD game, nothing more. There is no real D/s relationship in that.

If someone's enjoy both being a dom and a sub, then by all means - be a switch. But have a saparate master and slave.

A master cannot be he's slave's slave. (meaning, you can't be both a master and a slave of someone.)


Anyway, if you enjoy doing this, then by all means - do it. Who am I to pass judgement?

damned_virus
10-13-2007, 01:10 PM
I have been in both relationships described, except the time period for the switch was a week, it is just a game, not serious M/s. But still for me having a seperate slave and mistress feels better, so that is what i have now. But people are entitled to do what is best for them in this area, lol.

But it is very fun by all means, so try it out, lol.

TheLittleStrawberry
10-13-2007, 06:34 PM
I actually don't think it's such a good idea.
One of the most important things about a D/s relationship is respect. A slave should respect his/her master. Also, a slave needs to know that he should and will do anything his/her master tells him/her to do. A slave should know that there is some sort of space between him/her and the master, and the master should always be able to show the slave who's in charge.

Now, if your master will become your slave tommorow, you basicly have none, or almost none of the above.

I believe that a switch relationship is just some kind of a fun thing to do when u are bored, at best. It's basicly like a TorD game, nothing more. There is no real D/s relationship in that.

If someone's enjoy both being a dom and a sub, then by all means - be a switch. But have a saparate master and slave.

A master cannot be he's slave's slave. (meaning, you can't be both a master and a slave of someone.)


Anyway, if you enjoy doing this, then by all means - do it. Who am I to pass judgement?

Believe, for some people this kind of relationship is very real and serious, and they dont do this just for "fun" they do it because its a thing that they need in theirs life... but they cant just live with being just Master or slave.... They need both. SOme people do it by having an amount of time as one role, then the other. They still respect and love each other... But as all relationships, some people DO do it for fun only.. but thats not only switches.